Now to read my last post........accepting yourself......is another problem with that aspect lol guess I'm not doing so well.

That is interesting Zoe, I have sun sagittarius 5th house square VIRGO moon 2nd house. On a long term basis, I tend to be drawn to TAURUS guys who ground me and make me feel more secure. The sagittarius side of me looks at the big picture, while the moon side of me looks at the details. Sagittarius like fun and games and their lust dies with predictability, they need things to be mixed up but virgo gets freaked out when things are too unpredictable. I wish my personal moon/sun was as easy to integrate as my professional moon/sun persona. In my professional life having both sides has been an asset, I can wear many hats. In my personal life, people have commented that they thought they knew me but realize they didn't fully.

While I am outgoing and optimistic at times, when it comes to my personal relationships, I need to be with someone who is secure and stable. Sometime I am not always attracted to this person (venus sag sq moon virgo), so that has been a challenge. When I meet men who are on the surface are exciting to my sagittarius side, I am disappointed to learn that they don't have good jobs, are not reliable, or have fluctuating moods, and ultimately then I lose interest. It is hard to find someone who appeals to both my adventurous side and the side of me that wants security and fidelity. I have in the past resorted to having more than one man in my life at the time, one who appeals to the sag side and one who appeals to the virgo side, but ideally I would like to be with one person who appeals to both sides of me. Usually the men who appeals to my sag side don't last very long (at most a year if the sex is really good), however the men who appeal to my moon tends to be long term especially if they make an effort to be friends first. Sometimes I feel like I have to cut off my emotions for sexual gratification because the virgo part of me would never accept the person I am with. Hopefully after I pass my sexual peak (36), things will get easier.

Melissa,
You're right. I think I may have it backwards or something. What I meant was that Libra loves harmony and I always felt most at peace when things were on my terms socially: that is, I talked when and only when and if I wanted to. I thought my Taurus sun placement was what made me sometimes be charismatically socially pliable. Perhaps, it's the fixed Taurean nature that makes me want to stubbornly take my time in the social arena and the Libra Moon that's all about interacting as much and as often as possible? Also, David from what you said about Cancer, maybe my Cancer rising has something to do with it? Eventhough Cancer's planet the Moon is in Libra.

But my point was there was always an off and on, push and pull. My teachers used to tell me I'd go "in and out" of it like I was internally hitting a light switch. I guess, if anything, guys we can say our Moon/Sun aspects keep us on our feet.

David, is this Jyotish technique based on natal Moon/Sun placement?

kind of off the thread. but i was wondering what would be the significance of being born on the day of an eclipse. one of my closer friends back in the day asked me this question cause she was born on the day of a solar eclipse. i have not a clue. is this important in a natal chart? i have no idea, but maybe someone on here does or at least an idea. i actually checked & i was born the day after a lunar eclipse. does this mean something? hmmm...

any thoughts or ideas.

~natty