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best way to get back at a scorpio

topic posted Wed, March 18, 2009 - 9:18 PM by  BeutfullDisastr
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I dated a Scorpio for some time and although it didn't last, it was an experience. Lol. I recently heard that he had said some pretty graphic things about our sex life and I'm pissed. I decided to let it go since we don't talk much and I don't see him at all. Well he called me today (surprise, surprise) and although I wanted to tell him off, I didn't. He is very quick with his words and always seems to stay so damn calm I didn't want to make a fool of myself and get upset. I know he will call me again, its only a matter of time. What is the best way to get back at a scorpio male?
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    Wed, March 18, 2009 - 9:19 PM
    LOL!
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      Wed, March 18, 2009 - 9:32 PM
      Sorry. Your post is so ironic that I could not help myself but laugh. It also seems like being enamoured of Scorpio-bashing or revenge or retalliation against them is still proving to be an attraction after all these weeks of it going on intermittently.

      Frankly, I have no desire to "get back at" anyone, and I would advise you to get over that desire forthwith. I also believe that your desire for that stems largely from the fact that you just didn't level with your "kiss & tell" ex and let him know upfront what you had heard and how you felt about his actions. You can still do that, and perhaps it will be better now that you have essentially done your bit at proving that you are not, as you said, "a fool" who lost her cool. But for my part, I would let him know forthwith that it pissed you off and that, as a result, it is now not possible to trust him nor respect him nor hold him in much regard at all. Therefore, you are no longer interested and are moving on, so his attentions and contact are simply no longer welcome since he has shown himself to someone who easily betrays intimacy. Sayonara, dude would be the basic message. I think it would be your most honest message and a great relief to you as well to say it. I see no point in pussy-footing around when someone offends you like that.
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      Wed, March 18, 2009 - 9:33 PM
      A Scorpio I hung out (kind of dated) with for awhile sure helped me get in touch with feelings I didnt even know I had back then. He sure was a beautiful and handsome man, and I'm glad I came across when I did, 'cause heck I sure needed to get kick in the behind back then. Fond memories, even with the hoopla that ended our connection.
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    Thu, March 19, 2009 - 10:43 AM
    Scorpio male here.

    This guy may just be unlucky. Ex-girlfriends can say all sorts of things about their ex-boyfriends that they'll never know about, and vice versa. He said some things about you that got back to you. Do you get the sense that he said these things to people in a strategic way so you would find out what he said? His calling you seems to indicate that he knew that you'd find out what he said, and he's calling to gauge your reaction. Is it a game to get your attention? "Insecure" and "immature" come to mind.

    Whatever you do, be careful. If he thinks the score's even now, and you get back at him, the cycle can go on and on. Sounds like you have a good opportunity to let him go; he obviously hasn't let you go. Moving on with your life may expose his emotional vulnerabilities to himself, and it prevents you from sinking to his scorpio's lows.

    Scorpios are so fond of secrecy, and he divulged sensitive information about you... A good way to get even may be to release information that he didn't want the world to know. On some levels, since this punishment fits his crime, he may be caught in a double bind about what to do about it. Or, just find another boyfriend and tell everyone how glad you are to be with someone who can actually satisfy you sexually. That's a good indirect way of flaring up his inadequacies.

    If you were subtle and savvy enough to exploit his scorpio self-destruct mechanism that'd be extra glorious, although I'd need many particulars to help you along that route. I'd only bring out such big guns if he had done something really horrible, like if his rumor-spreading affected your ability to find employment or something. It seems like this guy's just being an annoying scorpio punk, nothing worth opening up too many cans o' whoop ass over.

    I'm more about letting it go. If you do it right, there may come a time when your day of vengeance and redemption gets granted unto you from on high, and for whatever reason, he'll rue the day he did you wrong. Let his own karma come back to him. If you take it upon yourself to fix him and fix him good, you may be short-circuiting nature's grand plans for this guy, and getting involved with his negative karma in the process.

    As a scorpio, I like the biblical thing about letting vengeance be the lord's job. If I take my vengeance, I break even if I'm lucky. If I let it go, the offending person usually ends up much worse off on more levels than I could've possibly affected with my own vengeance. Nature/God/Karma always comes through for me, and by being meek I seem to inherit the world. I'm not trying to protect your scorpio ex, just saying that trying to out-vengeance a scorpio may be more exhausting for you than it would be for him. Scorpio's are born to play the vengeance game, so he's going to have some degree of a "home turf" advantage. I'm sure I've given you enough ideas – ya gotta do what ya gotta do, I suppose. You don't have to play his game, however.

    Good luck!
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    Thu, March 19, 2009 - 7:09 PM
    act as if you really don't care that much... i.e. cool, calm and nonchalant (as if your relationship with him wasn't important enough to bring up an emotional reaction)... it really gets under their skin.
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      Fri, March 20, 2009 - 10:19 PM
      >>"What is the best way to get back at a scorpio male? Show up naked."<<

      No, there are much better ways than this. That actually will give the Scorpio male a little ego boost. He'll still feel like you're into him a little, and giving him a little power trip--even if you run away and deny him, he'll feel he secretly won a little with this scenario. You could probably decimate him by subtly suggesting that you somehow let these very same people he talked to know exactly how bad he was in bed, without actually even talking to anyone else. Just letting him think that you really think he's bad in bed, and that you somehow let other people realize this is how you feel, could really do some damage. However, I really hope you would not ever, ever, ever do anything of the sort. I know how sensitive Scorpios are, and you could literally destroy the man on some level this way. You would very likely hurt him far worse than he ever hurt you. If you still care about him (and even if you don't, but just happen to be empathic), you will probably hurt yourself doing this too.

      Personally, if he really hurt you badly by what he said, I would probably feel like leading him to believe I talked about him in the ways above, and leading him to believe that I really do think he's bad in bed, for about 10 minutes into a conversation--just until it's apparent he believes it and it's starting to get to him. Then, I would laugh and tell him that I'm just kidding, that I heard what he said about me and our sex life, that it really hurt and I wanted him to know how it felt for a few minutes. Then, I would explain that, since I'm a more compassionate and loyal individual then he obviously is, I would never talk about our sex life to others, and that I'm glad we have parted ways to each find someone else more compatible. I would then say that I hope he finds someone who puts up with such things and that I am glad I can find someone who will respect me enough not to reveal any of the things he and I do in private--no matter WHAT we choose to do (it's important you say this so he will envision you and this other person having your "private sex life" without him). Then tell him you wish him well and that you hope you can still be friends (and really mean it, if you know what's good for you; this guy doesn't sound like good news).

      I would only advise the previous course of action if he really, really hurt you. If not, or if you are somehow at fault too, or misinterpreting something, just walk away and turn the other cheek. It's probably not worth it, this getting back. Revenge is a viscous cycle, as someone pointed out. If I've ever gotten revenge, it's just been in a way where I'm basically joking for about 5 minutes, like the above, where I let the person briefly see how it feels before revealing the honest truth. I find honestly more effective as a whole, no matter what the sign is. However, honesty will probably get to a heavily Scorpio-influenced person even more than some. They will appreciate that you had the power to hurt them if you wished, but that you decided to level with them and be honest instead, and that you had the courage to be honest. You'll probably actually earn their respect with being honest. Then the cards are stacked in your favor anyway, IMO. He still doesn't sound like one to get back, though, if he talked about you this way. Just keep that in mind because he could come crawling back and begging you. . . just remember what he already did to you if he does. And, if you do take him back, make it clear that you have many things to talk about with others regarding him if he ever dares to talk about your sex life with others again.
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        Fri, March 20, 2009 - 11:44 PM
        Nyjx nyx >>"What is the best way to get back at a scorpio male? Show up naked."<<
        Ariyjh~gett back" es a youfasism for havings sex bebe! haha! if yuo wan sex wit scorpion thne show nakedness no? make sense? works more for buul too hehe!! aneyone else?
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        Sat, March 21, 2009 - 7:40 AM
        Ugh, actually I think my half-jesting possible revenge plan is just too nasty--even if you are sarcastcally half-jesting with him yourself in order to make him feel hurt like you were for a few minutes. It's still revenge. You're still hurting someone. You're still stooping to their level to try to do it.. Revenge is a dish that will likely leave a bad taste in your own mouth no matter what temperature it's served to the other person. It's just negative and creates negative karma. I would think being completely honest with him about what you heard, how it makes you feel, and why you don't want to continue any kind of relationship (even friendship) with someone who would do such a thing to you, is the best course of action. Let him do what he will with that and move on. Maybe he will even be swimming in guilt and regret over it eventually. Maybe not. But just don't stoop to his level.
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          Sat, March 21, 2009 - 5:02 PM
          That best way to get even with Scorpy perhaps is to emulate the way some of them talk, those endless rants that sometimes takes a turn into surrealism or some strange dadaism (example follows here):

          -I SAID A HUNDRED TIMES NOT TO BAKE CAKES WITHOUT ANY WHIPPED CREAM, NOW THIS DAY IS RUINED! LOOK WHAT I WAS FORCED TO DO! DON´T TORMENT ME WITH THAT CAKE! I´VE SLEPT ON THE COUCH & HURT MY NECK! MY NECK REALLY HURTS! WHAT AM I GOING TO DO! NOT-WITHOUT-WHIPPED-CREAM..!!
          • Re: best way to get back at a scorpio

            Sat, March 21, 2009 - 5:19 PM
            IMO, you don't "get back AT a Scorpio" you just take a page from the Scorpio book. Shed it and move on, The Scorpio has.
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              Sat, March 21, 2009 - 11:25 PM
              "IMO, you don't "get back AT a Scorpio" you just take a page from the Scorpio book. Shed it and move on, The Scorpio has.

              I dunno about that..

              I find that Scorpio hangs onto things a lot more than others. In fact the biggest problem I have with them in general is the emotional stubbornness and vengeful streak.

              Like all fixed signs. Gettin' over things ain't the strength of Scorpio.. Courage and Loyalty are.

              Think ~
              Fixed.
              Water.

              But good God, can we leave this sign alone already,.. Fer Chrissakes.

              I mean jeez, every other sign is just as interesting as Scorpio once you turn down the Hollywood Theme Music.

              Promise it is.
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                Sun, March 22, 2009 - 12:34 AM
                Yeah, what is it with this Scorpfix thing anyway? Maybe because tribe is so super-loaded with them and with folks with Scorpio Moons? You can't throw a rock around here without hitting 12 of them. The new Scorpio tribe is so chock full of Scorpio Moons that the mod was saying it was practically a Scorpio Moon tribe. Even though we still have to deal with Scorpio, it has been nice to talk about Geminis in the Gemini depth thread. But hardly anyone talks about Sag or Aries ~ except Mantis who can't stand Aries and gets her bite in whenever they are mentioned. Actually fire signs in general are almost never discussed here. It is like they just sort of burn away off to themselves at a distance. Even the earth signs get more attention ~ well, not Taurus, but Cap and Virgo. This tribe looks heavy water & mutable if you ask me. (Which of course no one is, but, screw it).

                And what is the deal with all this revenge and "getting back at" Scorpios anyway? What is inspiring that?

                I had an absolutely abominable female Scorpio boss one time. I would dream about her at least three times a week when I worked for her. Everyting with her was literally "fuck this" and "fuck that" and usually came around to some version of "fuck you." She made people crazy, and you never knew who would be there today, but not tomorrow. I never sought revenge, though, when it came around to me eventually. I mean, by that time it was obvious to me that she was a complete nut anyway, so why bother? I went on COBRA, collected unemployment and moved on ~ somewhat relieved. At least the dreams stopped.

                Doesn't anyone know any interesting Sagittarians these days? Sheesh. Seems to me they are loaded with material.
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                  Sun, March 22, 2009 - 5:43 AM
                  "But hardly anyone talks about Sag or Aries ~ except Mantis who can't stand Aries and gets her bite in whenever they are mentioned."

                  Well they're all innocent 'till proven fiery...lol.
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                Sun, March 22, 2009 - 5:41 AM
                "I find that Scorpio hangs onto things a lot more than others. In fact the biggest problem I have with them in general is the emotional stubbornness and vengeful streak." don't forget the taking themselves too seriously streak!

                Well, I might be just speaking for myself, but their seriousness and obsession with "fixed" stuff, like loyalty, control, influence etc is a huuuge turn-off. Pity, too, cause they have so much potential in other areas...haha.
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                  Sun, March 22, 2009 - 12:05 PM
                  "but their seriousness and obsession with "fixed" stuff, like loyalty, control, influence etc is a huuuge turn-off. Pity, too, cause they have so much potential in other areas"

                  Yes, i would say it is a pity that you see it as a turn-off, Mantis. These things are important qualities of life and we can learn a lot from Scorpio in those areas.

                  The more flighty signs have a harder time with these things.

                  I wonder how much of a "turn off" it really is to not have "loyal friends", or to "lack control" or have no "power" or "influence".
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                    Sun, March 22, 2009 - 1:04 PM
                    "Yes, i would say it is a pity that you see it as a turn-off, Mantis. These things are important qualities of life and we can learn a lot from Scorpio in those areas."

                    whaat? important qualities? you must be kidding.

                    well, depends on context, I suppose. I understand loyalty to the point where it stands against my progress.
                    Obviously, if I'd be head over heels in love with someone, I would be loyal. Not because I believe in it, but because I wouldn't want to cause him pain.
                    And power and control..I dunno. It's only worth something when you need money, and it can become a means of getting it.

                    And about "flighty signs"..better be careful with those words. You wouldn't know what it's like to be all mutable.
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            Sun, March 22, 2009 - 12:10 AM
            LOL!
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              Sun, March 22, 2009 - 12:22 AM
              Sadasiva.. funny..I've seen this post for days, having the same thought as you had.
              never even read any of it.
              But I was boored today, Rain and more Rain and all.
              So why did you feel the need to even involve yourself in such trivial crap anyway? lol

              And I'd agree w/ you to some extent. At least that side of a Scorpio Sun.
              If they are still intent on someone, Well INTENT they ARE.
              If they feel you've done them wrong, Your Meat.
              But if they've made it Over, They're Gone with just as much Intent as BEING there.
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                Sun, March 22, 2009 - 12:00 PM
                "So why did you feel the need to even involve yourself in such trivial crap anyway?"

                Because i found the statement you made and Sherpa validated to be incorrect based on my experience and general nature of the sign.

                I felt like clarification would add something.
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                Sun, March 22, 2009 - 12:47 PM
                >>>
                And I'd agree w/ you to some extent. At least that side of a Scorpio Sun.
                If they are still intent on someone, Well INTENT they ARE.
                If they feel you've done them wrong, Your Meat.
                But if they've made it Over, They're Gone with just as much Intent as BEING there.
                >>>

                Any pisces voices out there would likely try softly whispering to the scorpio that when you hurt someone else in this intricately connected world we live in ... more than likely you are stabbing your own self in some way.

                "If they feel you've done them wrong, Your Meat". Not neccessarily. They might see you that way ... but even the most steadfast conviction in the tightest grip of the deepest emotion is not enough to move reality from what it actually is and no one is really ever meat.

                haha ... although I bet I go good with barbeque sauce. mmmm
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    Sat, March 21, 2009 - 11:58 PM
    next time he calls, i'd hand my phone to one of my male friends and let him answer.
    Then just hang up on him.
    No explaination.
    that should do the trick.
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      Sun, March 22, 2009 - 12:14 AM
      I would be best if the male friend is an Aries! LOL! I had an Aries friend who told me a similar story about a girlfriend he had. It was hilarious! "I'm here and you're not. That tells you something! Click!" LOL!
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        Sun, March 22, 2009 - 5:29 AM
        OOH you know what else is super fun? Not answering and then texting "who is this?" like you "lost" the number. I do this with idiots of all signs. Gets even the ones who knew me longer. If those ppl. knew anything about astrology, they would know that I have trouble NOT memorizing numbers, which is why I save them immediately so I only see the name. Hmm...the more you know.
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          Sun, March 22, 2009 - 5:38 AM
          Well, you know, what I keep trying to say to all these gals who post "My boyfriend..." is that a jerk is a jerk regardless of his sign, but you are a bigger jerk if you put up with the jerk. Getting even with the jerk is sort of stupid, too, since it is unlikely you would feel the need to do that if you weren't involved yourself in allowing him to jerk you around. Short shrift can be made in the most direct and easy way of the above-described creep. Just level with him that you have heard about his kiss & tell crap, and that as a result, he has demonstrated his complete untrustworthiness and slimey character, which warrants only the highest of disgust ~ so good riddance. Click.
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            Sun, March 22, 2009 - 5:42 AM
            "but you are a bigger jerk if you put up with the jerk. "

            Oh that is SO true--you know, it's funny, some women don't see that they're exhibiting bad character by sticking around people of bad character. It's all whine whine, I'm a victim, which I understand the first few times around, but really? If you always attract idiots- then look at yourself and the thrill you get out of it. This shit really annoys me, and if you bring it up people get defensive and call you judgmental. Trust, I know lol...
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              Sun, March 22, 2009 - 5:52 AM
              There is no way I could agree more, and it annoys me and exasperates me and bores me to tears. It is extemely simple to get rid of a person ordinarily. The trouble is that these gals are all like ~ He is an absolute cad and treats me like shit. How do I get him back? ~ Excuse me? You want him back because.....? What? Is he the only man in a 1000 mile radius and you are horny as hell? WTF? Even if he were the only man in a 1000 mile radius and I were horny as hell, I would sure find another way to have an orgasm besides letting him in my bed, or, in my case, on my floor. Sheesh.
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        Sun, March 22, 2009 - 5:30 AM
        Mantis hates Aries? If I didn't know her sign I would think she's an Aries! Perhaps Mercury is what shows up the most here...hmmf.
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          Sun, March 22, 2009 - 5:40 AM
          <Mantis hates Aries? If I didn't know her sign I would think she's an Aries!>

          Yeah, I know sonah, but don't tell her that.
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            Sun, March 22, 2009 - 5:43 AM
            LOL---Ruh-Roh...
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              Sun, March 22, 2009 - 5:48 AM
              that's just cause in any form of written interaction, people connect mainly through their Mercury. And by someone's "Mercury" I don't just mean Mercury's position, by sign, house and aspects, but also the third house, and anywhere Gemini pops up on your chart.

              And I got Mars conjunct Jupiter conjunct Moon in Gemini, Pluto in the 3rd, and Gemini on the MC, which makes for "aggressive, impulsive, compulsive" etc..in written forms of expression.
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                Sun, March 22, 2009 - 5:56 AM
                And this explains your distaste for Aries how? Or are you saying that your apparent Aries-like persona is explained by this?
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                  Sun, March 22, 2009 - 6:10 AM
                  I mean, let's be real honest here, Mantis. There are times when you get in someone's face here that would give an Aries competition. That is not a criticism, btw. I usually am so cheering that on, seeing the power woman in you, which even at your tender age, you have in spades. Don't lose that, please. It will save you many times later in your life. But, honestly, Mantis ~ sometimes you weild your sword like Mars would ~ like an Aries. Actually, it is one of the things I like best about you. You can be so I am Pisces Mantis, No Bullshit. That often totally rocks. Even when you are in one of your depressed cycles, it still comes through. Even when you are in your detached mode, it comes through. Even when you are mopey, it comes through. You are amazingly bright, but also amazingly strong, whether you know it or not. I know, I know. There is all that Piscean subterranean self-destruct deal going on and murky, silty, buried stuff you won't even discuss probably. But that doesn't negate the other aspects of you. One of which is being able to pack a real punch.
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                    Sun, March 22, 2009 - 7:09 AM
                    thanks, amiable.

                    I am strong, but not in the way you think. I'm not Aries-strong. Aries strength comes from the love of life which keeps it ever-fighting to see the Sun shining one more time.
                    I can give up very easily. In fact, I already have given up before, completely, which is why I am strong now. I've seen the bottom, and know what awaits me.

                    The strong part is Pisces, as well. Pisces is actually the strongest sign in the cycle precisely because it's "weak", like some say-meaning it's humble. Pisces is the soul humbled by life and awaiting death with a clear forehead. Living with death by your side makes you unbreakable.

                    However, I think it's motivations and beliefs that makes us who we are, which is precisely why I am not Arian at all. I'm driven by emotions more than anything else-as much as my Virgo Rising hates that. It's either emotions, or the desire to find the divine in this world, to find peace.
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                      Sun, March 22, 2009 - 7:58 AM
                      Mantis, I agree that pisces knows the trick of finding strength in weaknesses.

                      At the same time, I would be careful about saying that any one sign is "strongest". I think in reality it is very situational ... one sign is strong in this situation another is strong in a different situation.

                      I would also say that signs just provide potential archetypes for shaping energy. There are a couple different senses of the word "strong" here. Strong energies don't always translate into strong people and vice-versa.
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                        Sun, March 22, 2009 - 9:05 AM
                        in response the post/comment calling Pisces weak:
                        I have read that a pisces person has lived a life in every other sign...the soul of a thousand souls...as in being such they are old souls and relate to almost everyone in some way...this would make them very wise and adaptable, not weak....
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                      Sun, March 22, 2009 - 11:58 AM
                      "Pisces is actually the strongest sign in the cycle precisely because it's "weak",

                      All signs are equally strong based on their dignified qualities.

                      They each have their own way of expressing that strength and weakness
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                      Sun, March 22, 2009 - 12:19 PM
                      Not in the way that I think? That is exactly what I think. You just don't see how your Pisces is progressing, and I believe you really misunderstand Aries. If you don't see the emotion in Aries, well......
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                        Sun, March 22, 2009 - 12:59 PM
                        Aries is all emotion, actually, and people underestimate the intensity of it also (people also underestimate Sag emotion, but that's another topic). Pisces rests in emotion, and Aries rushes through them, but that doesn't mean that issues are dealt with at a faster pace. It's more of an optimistic mood thing and a restless boredom thing. But Aries is always, always feeling something. Especially the moon, which I feel lucky to have because it helps me realize things will pass. Until they come back again the next day, of course. Think of it as organizing the completion of a project over days-it's gotta be done eventually.
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                          Sun, March 22, 2009 - 1:07 PM
                          sonah,

                          of course they're always feeling. every living creature on Earth is always feeling. But there's a difference between emotion and sensation.
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                            Sun, March 22, 2009 - 1:27 PM
                            Must be a language difference--I would say there is a difference between sensitivity and emotion. I feel the word "sensation" is cheapening to Aries emotion because to me it was always a word about the physical feeling of a moment, not necessarily a reaction to it.. There are moments when I can't even take the intensity of Aries and the time I wait while telling myself it passes is just excruciating, and life literally feels like hell. And if Aries remembers the emotion, it can be a vicious cycle. Aries can be tortured in that weird way because these spurts are soooo intense- especially when combined with other things in the chart.
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                            Sun, March 22, 2009 - 1:37 PM
                            Peoples tendencies to seek sensation depends more on their age then their sun sign.
                            The more I read posts like these, about this sign being more this and that sign being more that - the more I come to conclusion that astrology should be taken symbolically, and that the 12 signs represent the different sides that exist in all people, maybe even in equal amounts. I´m becoming more and more aware of the fact that it is ridiculous to take astrology seriously.
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                              Sun, March 22, 2009 - 3:11 PM
                              "I´m becoming more and more aware of the fact that it is ridiculous to take astrology seriously. "

                              How about rather than write off "astrology" - due to "posts like these" - which are distasteful you, why not write off those opinions themselves and let them be a catalyst to a greater clarification of astrology for you.

                              Astrology is whatever you make it. Just like anything else. It would be like someone writing off "medicine" because of extreme and uninformed opinions that people might have based on their lack of understanding and study.

                              If you're really interested in astrology, and actually study it and research it you will see the beauty of it.

                              If not, like many, you will write it off based on opinions you don't like.

                              That would be your loss. I don't say this to be elitist just honest.

                              You would not be alone. Many professionals astrologers write off "astrology" on certain levels. They may opine that "astrology" can never show you (this thing/ that thing). Yet, I'm certain if they studied astrology relative to whatever they are talking about, they will see the pattern emerging. Or if they can't, there is someone who has looked into astrology based on those things and have seen the patterns.

                              Astrology is bigger than any one mind or one persons understanding. It's our connection to the universe after all.

                              My theory is individually we all have a small portion of the overall aggregate amount of "astrology" knowledge. If we could ever pull our individual astrology knowledge into a collective, that is what "astrology" actually shows.

                              But in fact, you would have to pull that collective wisdom from the entire history of human civilization, as each of them had some form of astrology and any mind that has ever pondered it is has pondered it through their own unique paradigm.

                              That's what astrology shows
    • Re: best way to get back at a scorpio

      Sun, March 22, 2009 - 9:14 AM
      back on topic of this thread...
      I'd like to imagine the next time your ex-boyfriend calls you, it would go down like this....
      He calls...
      your male friend answers.."Hello?"
      your ex says "uh...is this 555-5555?"
      your friend "are wanting to talk to (insert your name here)?"
      ex "yeah, who are you?"
      click.
      ex calls back: no answer. ever.
      then move on with you life.

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