Actually, I'm probably one of the least sociable people you could meet. I mean, I do have social tact, and I'm good at "small talk" and shallow socializing, but I'm the least willing to compromise when it comes to building social relations, and that's why, frequently, I appear to be labeled as "not sociable", or " unable to adapt" etc.

I basically haven't met anyone less willing to socialize than me. And the Scorpios are no exceptions. They, too, can be choosy when it comes to relations, but they eventually give in and learn to settle for less, unlike me, who would rather stay in solitude.

And I'm definitely talking about people with a lot of Scorpio influences. One of them is my dad. We literally come from different planets, and he's very Scorpio in temper and personality. He's actually a Cap Sun(which is again a quincunx for my Gemini planets, especially since his Sun is in 0 degree Capricorn, and my Gemini planets are in 0 degree, as well-that's a tight quincunx). But he's also a Scorpio Rising, with a Moon-Venus conjunction in Scorpio. To give you an idea, his energy is something like the military guy's in "American Beauty"-the one who "hates fags", and thinks "there are rules in life"-the next door neighbour-yep, that's very similar.

Then, there's this guy I knew in school, who always pissed me off, and also had the typical Scorpio traits(Sun, Mercury, Venus in Scorpio, Moon in Virgo-dunno the Rising). Oh, and his Moon squared my Gemini planets. Actually, there were several Scorpio guys I hated in school.

Also, about 4 Scorpio Sun girls I've met over the years-who, I admit, only had a Scorpio Sun, as far as I know-but I recognized the exact type of energy-and that's what I hated in each of them.
That constant meddling, suspiciousness and mistrust. And the demanding nature. As if they are the center of the Earth, or something, and everybody should explain themselves to them. The thing I hate most is feeling invaded, and most Scorpios-at least the immature types-tend to come across as invasive to me. And not to mention the fact that they take themselves waaay too seriously. Being all Mutable, I hardly take anything serious-everything is a game to me, and that's the way I like it. Typical Scorpios will try to convince me that it's a "flaw", and I can't stand people who try to change or "mold" me.

And with Sagittarians..well, it all goes well, up to a certain "boiling point"-for me, I mean-when it ends up in fighting. I dunno-maybe if I were "all Gemini", I would manage to get along with them, but I can distinctly feel the clash with my Pisces planets and Virgo Rising. They always come across as unemotional, "unpolished", brusque, and well...you get the picture. I'm too much of a pussy-cat to be rolling in the mud with dogs.


So, yes, squares, as far as I've noticed, definitely tend to show incompatibility of energies, especially when they happen between Sun, Moon, or Ascendant-since these are you most "vital", and unchangeable parts. The worst are squares between the Sun and Moon, as far as I've noticed. At least, in my case. I've known a few Sag Moons who just made me violently hateful towards them the moment I saw them. And I just think..it was mutual. Some influences are just too strong to control.
Oh, and I've also noticed the same type of hatefulness towards Virgos born in August, because their Sun squares my Moon(-and Mars, and Jupiter).

I generally find it very hard to get along with fire and water types. Especially fire. The reason is that both of these have very irrational tempers, and I find it very hard to respect that. As a highly "Mercurial" person, I have to make an effort to even consider irrational people. I just refuse to understand how some people give into their every urge and impulse, without ever questioning them.
Unless they make this conscious effort, most heavily watered and fired people come across as mere puppets in the "universal show". They may do great things, but you always wonder where were THEY in all those things? Their conscious selves? A person can only be a person if she has a conscious mind.

actually, Geminis also like being pampered every once in a while, and Cancers are the best in pampering. Cancer is a semi-sextile to my Gemini planets which is soothing, not irritating, like the Scorpio quincunx.

Well, dunno about "clingy". I actually see that as character and strength. The fact that they're so open about their feelings. Quite surprisingly, Cancers appear a lot more reliable than Scorpios. At least around the age of 20. This is the age when every girl wants a Cancer man, and every boy wants a Scorpio girlfriend.

Things change for the over 30s-every woman starts looking for a Scorpio, after Cancer got too obsessed with interior decorations and the perfect breakfast, and every man is searching for a Cancer woman, to settle down, or, better yet, to get away from the nagging, power-driven Scorpio wife. Meanwhile, Pisces people are still trying to tie their Virgos into marriage.