Sorry that last sentence should read ".........in life-long marriages to alcoholics........"

When asking a Pisces this directly, whatever you do, don't believe their response! (or at least not their first answer)
that's my best advice

love all-ways,
mem

Wow, I feel for you as the friend of a Pisces swimming around in a lost cause.
I can relate bc my moon is in Pisces and no matter how good my friends are - and they are good....I ultimately swim the way I want and yeah...if I think they disapprove, i tend to just swim away for a while.
Luckily I am a scorpio sun and my mars in virgo is rather earnest.
As for what signs do Pisces go for?
I think it depends on their mood - but a strong theme is either to be saved or to save - they need to feel they have a purpose and that their love is spiritual - a form of enlightenment and attainment rather than reservations for 4 at the Red lobster (reality kills most of them).
But they are beautiful, and their words, drip out and rhymn without effort and when they love you in that moment - it's incredibly full and unbearably sweet.

errr 4. typo

"then I met a pisces girl who was devoted to one she could never have. "

Ha ha ha, that really struck a good one with me, spent many years in that mode, the idle romantic, longing for and feeling deeply as I read Les Fleur du Mal.....

The only one sign I can say with certainty that I do not like to date, or be with, at all, at all, is Aries.
I have dated Taurus and Libra often, without knowing it, and Virgos crack me up. Why is that?

I think a pisces sun native, more than any other, can go for any type. And like any sun sign, they're most inclined to go for the type that's least represented in their own charts. In my case, that's been women with a lot of earth somewhere in their charts.

Why ask Pisces anyway....you're probably going to receive 12,000 different answers :-)

Some things that are important to me (some are shallow you might say, but hey...).
Dark hair, hairy chest, and legs if possible, very intelligent, a "take it ot leave attitude" (except with me of course), good kisser, self-control, not lazy, complex but sweet at the same time, deep voice, serious, can make me laugh, can make me go crazy for him with one look.

Magenta, I couldn't have said it better!

For Females - venus is how we attract - naturally
For Males - venus is what they are attracted to...
So, maybe unknowingly, you attract Pisces men bc you are playing naturally your role of pisces in venus.
as for what attracts the Pisces, I am very glad I am not a Pisces sun - no offense but it's hard enough being a Pisces Moon and so far given what was written - Not attracted at all to what most Pisces are attracted to...except okay ...I need to be careful with trying to save people but that even gets old..all that martyr shit (for me) is really just a cover for me not dealing with my own shit.

John - you crack me up - Pisces moon be damned - but we have no choice do we? It also has amazing strengths to it - if we could just harness them and not get discouraged.
Coors - I found what you wrote really sweet.
Steve et al..as for what makes a martyr? Who knows....again it's relative - I do have a negative association with that term.
i.e. when people say Mother Teresa was a martyr - I don't like it - so what was she then Kat? She was this amazing human being who chose to help others no matter what color, creed etc. they were - and what was cool about her (Virgo) was she projected (at least for me) such a humble attitude and didn't seem to wear the cloak of savior or as I see it martyr.
But who knows..I never had lunch with Mother "T" and even if I did...I doubt I would be able to analyze her...I would be too busy thinking "Shit..I am having lunch with Mother Teresa!"

hey my best friend for 10 years is a pisces and im a capricorn, i love her 2 death.. and no i do not push her around, shes the strong one, though she says that about me, we lean on each other : ]

We travel in schools

I am a pisces. I'll have to try a Scorpio!
I think I might be attracted to scorpios. I find them facinating. I just found out that 2 facinating people are scorpios. One I keep at a distance because he tends to be a little too blunt/callus for me tender emotions. The other one is sooooo nice and helpful.

There is a third... Still trying to decide on him.

In the past, my major relationships were with:
1 Gemini - ok he was incredibly smart and I loved our conversations.
2 virgos - one ok and the other BORING!!! Same stuff, different day.
1 cancer - too immature and only cared about himself.

I am a quadruple Pisces. I tend to go for Scorpios and Aquarius's. Gemini's hunt me down like a bad craving.

"But about that thing about being asexual? That is not true.
Well, I can only speak for myself, and I believe that Pisceans in general see sex as something 'higher' than just some animal-urge or whatever to call it.
- Or at least, we like to believe that sex is just more than 'mortal needs'.
But that does not mean that we don't/can't enjoy it or don't want to be sexually active.
Well, we just don't do it with the first and the best, I guess."

I agree with you exactly :)


"Actually I've been told, and can totally agree, that Piscean women (and probably also men) can be very innocent, cute with watery puppy-eyes and all that when they're outside, but in the bedroom they can be as dirty and perverted as any Scorpio."


Haha! that's for sure! We can go from :) to >:D real quick lol!

Sometimes I wonder if I am asexual LOL.
The pisces and aquarius influences overlap "just so".
Of course that mix could end up going the other way, too - but for me it has turned towards the asexual I'd say.









But I know it isn't true.
I think that you hit it right on ... I'm looking for a "higher love" - not just some randy romp or impressive display of skill and testosterone.
And I won't settle.

I think we are attracted to men who tend to be a little controlling. At least I know I am lol :)

the only time i have relationships that fully suck me under
(excepting one where i think that guy did some crazy voodoo)
have been with pisces men....but it ends badly always
I've noticed an inability to say what bothers them
I've noticed that turns nasty eventually
the last one had an aquarius rising though and he did eventually talk to me
though his clarity was not there really which is a problem for me because I need to talk till I really understand things

I think I would prefer the scorpio ability to come right out with things, but somehow i connect on an intense friend level with scorpio suns right away to where I couldn't sleep with them there is sometimes the tendency to take over the room with their emotional intensity and Im sensitive to that too, but sometimes they're just too cuddly and sweet and i can see their weaknesses too clearly
The worst of pisces i think is when they make it look like they are weak to outsiders in order to have people think of them in a certain way (like someone who deserves their sympathy, or as the underdog or victim in a situation)
and in the times I've seen it sometimes it was manipulated on purpose and sometimes not and I have only seen it men because I have not been close enough to any pisces women to be able to see that happen, excepting my sister who was way not that way as far as I could tell, but who knows......Anyway I have to see something pretty frequently to post generalizations like that..........Always the fantasy of the romance with the pisceans has been extremely beautiful even when it's been painful and awful and all wrong. Still beautiful to think about in hindsight some way or another.

Pisces see the world very subjectively, and they are very affected by and molded from whatever childhood and environmental influences that they have been exposed to during the formative years. Pisces "feels" everything, they are "wide open" empathically so they feel most comfortable with the other water signs, Cancer and Scorpio, but they are very much influenced by drama, fuss, etc, so the lowdest, badest person at the party may make the biggest impression on them, sytangely Pisces women odten like what is known as "bad boys"

I hate that talk of pisces men being the most non masculine of men. nigga we r the bestest, only Example of what a man is. at least this is how i live. it's like u just can't go around arguing & punching every muthafuckin stupid living person in the face so when they move u in this way, the opposite must be shown. (this is where people get confused an then begin their observation and lableing) let us not forget that majority of prisons in the world r primarily dominated by piscean prisoners. this is true even if it ain't true. i feel this way. we're crazy, i'm crazy. i feel this way. to the women if i feel you're not classy, not very lady like at all then u disgust me ya know. i will smile at u, listen to u talk if you're talkin to me, comment back a lil, all the while you're thinkin "aww this guy is cool, flirtatious....etc.) & i'm thinkin "this bitch is so lame. i wanna fuck her" (& if she ain't at least physically attractive) i'll think......"i wanna fuck her" lol. to the men it's like i'm Will Ferrell always using that line " i just wanna punch u in the face" just cuz i don't like how u look. & it ain't the looks ya dig. deeper my friend. :-)
We get Bored !!! i get bored....
anyway......
Ladies out there wanting that Pisces man.....LOYALTY, be about it. act as if your Pisces mans mind is one of the greatest minds you've been blessed to know, & then don't act. IMPORTANT: after that, never let nobody know what you've got. meaning NEVER let anyone in on ya'lls real discussions. you'll fuck up if u do. don't tell your girlfriends, guy frinds, co-workers, & family bout my talk....EVER !! you'll never understand your pisces but once u figure this out & he's noticed, then you'll forever understand your pisces.
about SCORPIOS: i've always heard that pisces & scorpios (along with cancers of course) r a great match. but ya know what..personally i don't be feelin Scorps, they love drama. i don't play that shit. Scorpio guys seem pertty coo, never nothing to fear like these talks of them be suggesting but....calm....not really a threat at all, ever....to me. as for the females, i don't be feeling them & the main reason is they're too fuckin predictable. soon as they start a topic i'll know it's middle & end whether it's happened or not just yet. Boring. Scorpios love talking nothing but about themselves which makes me wonder how can they ever have the up on anyone. but people say they can & do so....yea.
so they say that cancers be the baby, scorps the teens & us the elders. don't believe in it but i feel it.
about CANCERS (cancerians lol): the cancer fellas seem very femanine to me. & when they got them a gurl they always think that their boys (along with every guy in the world) is try'na take their gurl or is plotting to take their girl or dreams of having their girl....ya know. Lame. when a cancer is around just pisces he/she will try his/her best to imitate pisces. but they ain't really lame, just when they got them a girl lol. as for the women, some of the best sex i've had was with a cancer (although the hoe medically burnt me in the end). some of the greatest talks i've ever had with a woman was with a cancerian. a cancerian woman will fuck up a relationship with pisces by tryin to test their love. Stupid. i'm gone.
GEMINI: dual sign & dual sign.....just works even tho it seem like it ain't posed to. & i'm talkin friendship only.

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i'll put it like this....Pisces people r smart & a life without humor is not really life at all. if anyone is dieing to know a pisces know this, if you're around a pisces & he/she is not laughing then you're not liked by this person. if pisces has u laughing & if you're one who can have pisces crackin up, rolling on the ground anytime all the time.....you're pretty much the world then, friend or soulmate.

awright
i'm out this Bitch

~Shnig

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