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I ran across this zodiac generalization, for mindless entertainment.
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I'm strongest in Aries, and I am certainly impatient.
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Nobody's perfect. That's one thing we can all agree about. Sometimes, we even admit to our own faults.
We're still better at noticing those of others, though, especially those who know us well enough to irritate us - to "push our buttons," so to speak. And your astrological sign can have a lot to do with those buttons. What sends an Aries over the edge wouldn't even faze a Capricorn.
What drives you absolutely crazy? Check for your pet peeves in the list below, and when they come up, consider it your mission to count to ten - or 100, if that's what it takes - to keep your cool.
Aries:
Yours is the most impatient sign of all, Aries, so naturally, what irritates you most is waiting. Period. You want to be the first one in, the first one out, and at the very head of the pack in the left hand lane, whether it's rush hour or 3 a.m. Your impatience also extends to your temper. That said, Pet Peeve #2 is anyone who won't fight back. After all, what's better than a worthy opponent?
Taurus:
Unlike your Aries and Gemini neighbors, you, Taurus, can't stand rushing. You believe in measuring twice (at least) and cutting once, in thinking before you act, and in choosing your words and actions as carefully as possible. What drives you crazy more than anything, then, is haste - but unexpected change is a close second. In fact, unlike most of us, you're not particularly fond of surprises, even if they're pleasant ones.
Gemini:
Mercury is your planet, Gemini, the guy with the wings on his head and his feet, symbolizing his quicksilver abilities when it comes to mental and physical speed. So, understandably, nothing makes you crazier than someone who just won't cut to the chase when they're telling a story or refuses to take a shortcut when they know they're running late - although it's hard to imagine how they could resist, with all the tapping and fidgeting you do while you're waiting.
Cancer:
Safety, security, and your home and family are what matter most to you, Cancer, and there's nothing you love more than spending an evening at your place, surrounded by loved ones, snuggled up under a quilt. So what makes you nuts? Being dragged out by a well-meaning friend who's decided that you "need more socializing." That's grounds for . . . well, for all kinds of things. Second, though, is having to eat someone else's cooking, which is seldom, if ever, as good as yours.
Leo:
Yours is the sign of the performer, Leo. You can turn any place into a stage, from an actual podium to a bar to the front of a classroom. What makes you crazy is one thing: someone who tries to steal your applause. You work hard to keep everyone amused and entertained, and you enjoy it as much as they do. The spotlight is only so wide, though, so when someone tries to snag some of it, you won't hesitate to show your disapproval.
Virgo:
Cleanliness. Order. Organization. That's what you need to function at your best, Virgo, in your personal surroundings, your workplace, and your daily schedule. So what drives you crazy more than anything else is filthy, unsanitary, or disorganized conditions, as well as people who exhibit those qualities. It's the dirty details where you personally see the devil - and even if you have to scrub your fingers to the bone, you will be rid of him.
Libra:
Contrary to popular opinion, your specialty, Libra, is not "balance" itself, it's restoring balance to unbalanced situations. So what you can't stand, more than anything else, is seeing lopsided, prejudiced, unfair, or discriminatory conditions. It brings out the cruise director, mediator, and judge in you. In other words, you put your own feelings aside to become whatever it takes to make things "nice" again.
Scorpio:
Your sign is famous for its love of depth, intensity, and digging below the surface. So what makes you crazier than anything is meeting up with someone who goes out of his way to be shallow, cavalier about important issues (especially the ones you feel most strongly about) and superficial. It makes you wonder what he or she is really up to - and wondering is what keeps you from getting a decent night's sleep.
Sagittarius:
You love to learn, travel, and have fun with interesting others. In short, if it's new, uncharted territory, if you feel that you're boldly going where no one has gone before - yourself in particular - then you're game. What you can't stand - what you absolutely cannot and will not tolerate, no matter what - is boredom. That's your #1 Pet Peeve. A close second? Someone who dares to tell you "no," regardless of why.
Capricorn:
When it comes to taking charge, while you may occasionally pretend you don't absolutely adore it, to be perfectly honest, you know you do - and you know we all love it when you're "driving," because you're so good at it. So what absolutely makes you nuts is having to take orders from someone who's not only less qualified than yourself, but also pitifully less suited to the position. Fortunately, that doesn't happen much, now does it?
Aquarius:
You're the rebel, the radical, and the eccentric in every group, whether it's family, friends, or your team at work. You love and cultivate those labels because of the freedom they allow you to be yourself. The worst thing, then - the very worst thing of all, in your eyes - is being pressed into a mold, being told what to do, having to obey, and being forced to act like everyone else. It's simply not acceptable - and it doesn't happen often…
Pisces:
Your specialty, Pisces, is emotions, maybe even more so than sentimental Cancer. You're comfortable sniffling and dabbing at your eyes during a sad movie (or a commercial, for that matter) and rather - no, extremely - proud of your ability to sense what's wrong with a loved one before they even realize it themselves. So what makes you most irritated is when someone tells you you're being "overly emotional." After all, in your eyes (which is what matters), can you ever be too emotional?
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I'm strongest in Aries, and I am certainly impatient.
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Nobody's perfect. That's one thing we can all agree about. Sometimes, we even admit to our own faults.
We're still better at noticing those of others, though, especially those who know us well enough to irritate us - to "push our buttons," so to speak. And your astrological sign can have a lot to do with those buttons. What sends an Aries over the edge wouldn't even faze a Capricorn.
What drives you absolutely crazy? Check for your pet peeves in the list below, and when they come up, consider it your mission to count to ten - or 100, if that's what it takes - to keep your cool.
Aries:
Yours is the most impatient sign of all, Aries, so naturally, what irritates you most is waiting. Period. You want to be the first one in, the first one out, and at the very head of the pack in the left hand lane, whether it's rush hour or 3 a.m. Your impatience also extends to your temper. That said, Pet Peeve #2 is anyone who won't fight back. After all, what's better than a worthy opponent?
Taurus:
Unlike your Aries and Gemini neighbors, you, Taurus, can't stand rushing. You believe in measuring twice (at least) and cutting once, in thinking before you act, and in choosing your words and actions as carefully as possible. What drives you crazy more than anything, then, is haste - but unexpected change is a close second. In fact, unlike most of us, you're not particularly fond of surprises, even if they're pleasant ones.
Gemini:
Mercury is your planet, Gemini, the guy with the wings on his head and his feet, symbolizing his quicksilver abilities when it comes to mental and physical speed. So, understandably, nothing makes you crazier than someone who just won't cut to the chase when they're telling a story or refuses to take a shortcut when they know they're running late - although it's hard to imagine how they could resist, with all the tapping and fidgeting you do while you're waiting.
Cancer:
Safety, security, and your home and family are what matter most to you, Cancer, and there's nothing you love more than spending an evening at your place, surrounded by loved ones, snuggled up under a quilt. So what makes you nuts? Being dragged out by a well-meaning friend who's decided that you "need more socializing." That's grounds for . . . well, for all kinds of things. Second, though, is having to eat someone else's cooking, which is seldom, if ever, as good as yours.
Leo:
Yours is the sign of the performer, Leo. You can turn any place into a stage, from an actual podium to a bar to the front of a classroom. What makes you crazy is one thing: someone who tries to steal your applause. You work hard to keep everyone amused and entertained, and you enjoy it as much as they do. The spotlight is only so wide, though, so when someone tries to snag some of it, you won't hesitate to show your disapproval.
Virgo:
Cleanliness. Order. Organization. That's what you need to function at your best, Virgo, in your personal surroundings, your workplace, and your daily schedule. So what drives you crazy more than anything else is filthy, unsanitary, or disorganized conditions, as well as people who exhibit those qualities. It's the dirty details where you personally see the devil - and even if you have to scrub your fingers to the bone, you will be rid of him.
Libra:
Contrary to popular opinion, your specialty, Libra, is not "balance" itself, it's restoring balance to unbalanced situations. So what you can't stand, more than anything else, is seeing lopsided, prejudiced, unfair, or discriminatory conditions. It brings out the cruise director, mediator, and judge in you. In other words, you put your own feelings aside to become whatever it takes to make things "nice" again.
Scorpio:
Your sign is famous for its love of depth, intensity, and digging below the surface. So what makes you crazier than anything is meeting up with someone who goes out of his way to be shallow, cavalier about important issues (especially the ones you feel most strongly about) and superficial. It makes you wonder what he or she is really up to - and wondering is what keeps you from getting a decent night's sleep.
Sagittarius:
You love to learn, travel, and have fun with interesting others. In short, if it's new, uncharted territory, if you feel that you're boldly going where no one has gone before - yourself in particular - then you're game. What you can't stand - what you absolutely cannot and will not tolerate, no matter what - is boredom. That's your #1 Pet Peeve. A close second? Someone who dares to tell you "no," regardless of why.
Capricorn:
When it comes to taking charge, while you may occasionally pretend you don't absolutely adore it, to be perfectly honest, you know you do - and you know we all love it when you're "driving," because you're so good at it. So what absolutely makes you nuts is having to take orders from someone who's not only less qualified than yourself, but also pitifully less suited to the position. Fortunately, that doesn't happen much, now does it?
Aquarius:
You're the rebel, the radical, and the eccentric in every group, whether it's family, friends, or your team at work. You love and cultivate those labels because of the freedom they allow you to be yourself. The worst thing, then - the very worst thing of all, in your eyes - is being pressed into a mold, being told what to do, having to obey, and being forced to act like everyone else. It's simply not acceptable - and it doesn't happen often…
Pisces:
Your specialty, Pisces, is emotions, maybe even more so than sentimental Cancer. You're comfortable sniffling and dabbing at your eyes during a sad movie (or a commercial, for that matter) and rather - no, extremely - proud of your ability to sense what's wrong with a loved one before they even realize it themselves. So what makes you most irritated is when someone tells you you're being "overly emotional." After all, in your eyes (which is what matters), can you ever be too emotional?
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Sun, October 11, 2009 - 12:56 PMLOL!
aries aren't necesarily impatient but rather incrediably and shamelessly honest . -
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Mon, October 12, 2009 - 6:08 PM"..!.." said: "aries aren't necesarily impatient but rather incrediably and shamelessly honest . "
I know one who represses his natural sexual urges, takes it out on his (two) sisters, then posts on FaceBook for his pseudo-religious friends about how disgusting couple who french-kiss in public are.
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Tue, October 13, 2009 - 6:56 AM:"..!.." said: "aries aren't necesarily impatient but rather incrediably and shamelessly honest . "
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"That's hardly honest to me. "
Rephrase "incrediably and shamelessly honest to speaking what is on the mind ."
That makes a better description.
the post's subject is for generalization, for mindless entertainment like tongue and cheek .
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Sun, October 11, 2009 - 1:53 PMAquarius
Hah! So true! Being pigeon holed into a role, or having to follow someone elses orders drive me up the wall. It creates a mini volcano of resentment and anger inside. grrr..
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Sun, October 11, 2009 - 9:48 PMOh I have a long list:
1. I can't stand neediness or clinginess, passive-aggressive behaviour, victimhood, especially among women. I attribute this to moon in Capricorn. and to a certain extent where victimhood is concerned, the Scorpio stellium with Uranus closest to my zenith.
2. I can't stand wishy-washiness. You either make a decision and follow it through or not. I attribute this to Libra stellium.
3. I can't stand people who raise their voices, complain unnecessarily or curse or swear when they don't get their way, even when it's nothing to do with me. There are ways to get things without resorting to this. I attribute this to the Libra stellium.
4. I can't stand shallowness. I attribute this to the Scorpio stellium.
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Mon, October 12, 2009 - 2:23 AMI'm too true to my Taurus nature - can't STAND being rushed, whatever the circumstances. I do like nice suprises though - that might be the Leo rising - won't say no to a bit of pampering and someone making the effort to give me a nice suprise, I view that as pampering! -
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Mon, October 12, 2009 - 12:21 PMfeel the same way, viki. i'm very taurean about that also - i can get quite irritated and overwhelmed if someone pushes/rushes me too much. sometimes the stress makes me stubbornly slow down just to try to clear my head and sometimes in helps me to put the pressure on myself and pick up the pace.
but we differ in that i fit the description about surprises, too. i like nice gestures and all and i appreciate novel ideas, people, and circumstances (i have some gemini/aries), but i'd usually rather know what i'm getting into, at least to some extent. i can take some amount of surprise (and can really enjoy it) if the circumstances around it are comfortable and familiar enough for me to feel alright with some amount of the unpredictable. but i get sort of stressed out if something is just thrown at me. i like being able to prep myself, mentally, in advance. i am, sadly, a bit lacking in spontaneity and flexibility. oh, i can be a dull, dull bull in some ways.
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Mon, October 12, 2009 - 2:27 AM"So, understandably, nothing makes you crazier than someone who just won't cut to the chase when they're telling a story or refuses to take a shortcut when they know they're running late"
omg that is SO true. My mum is a mercury in pisces. You could leave the room, make some tea, watch some tv and she still won't have gotten to the point! -
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Mon, October 12, 2009 - 4:21 AMlol. the gemini part really fits me, but I am also a Mercury in Pisces person, so I don't tend to treat people with the same consideration for concise information..hahaha -
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Mon, October 12, 2009 - 4:22 AMPisces part also fits me, of course. And definitely..what's "too" emotional? There's no such thing.
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Mon, October 12, 2009 - 4:26 AMMantis - Yeah, and I think we're probably a mix of several. I am an Aries/Sag/Taurus, I'd say. I can relate to all three slightly. I'm not adverse to change like the typical Taurus, but it's true that suprise gifts are annoying to me for some reason. -
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Tue, October 13, 2009 - 8:26 AMactually, the taurus bit fits me quite well, too. Maybe because of my planets on the cusp of Taurus/Gemini -
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Tue, October 13, 2009 - 8:27 AMvirgo, ironically, doesn't really fit me.
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Mon, October 12, 2009 - 12:25 PMI don't own a single sunsign astrology book. -
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Mon, October 12, 2009 - 4:42 PMI can see how this can be taken either way - sun-sign stereotyping or descriptive of the pet-peeve's associated with different signs (whether it's your sun sign or something entirely different).
In my case it all depends on the situation.
I'd also like to note that it seems to me that some people get off on the feeling of being peeved while others try to find some way to unpeeve themselves.
Aries:
Waiting is ok if I have a distraction readily available to redirect my gogogo impulse. Otherwise I just can't do it.
Mercury in aries - I think that this fits pretty well .. it's like a very gemini take on this arian "pet peeve".
I think planets in signs might show a tendency to get peeved BUT ALSO a method for coping.
Taurus:
There are only certain situations where I can't be rushed ... and those situations make rushing and pushing me grounds for a breakup.
chiron in taurus .... it's a heart-breaking deal breaker when I get rushed.
Cancer:
"Safety, security, and your home and family are what matter most to you, Cancer, and there's nothing you love more than spending an evening at your place, surrounded by loved ones, snuggled up under a quilt. So what makes you nuts? Being dragged out by a well-meaning friend who's decided that you "need more socializing." That's grounds for . . . well, for all kinds of things. Second, though, is having to eat someone else's cooking, which is seldom, if ever, as good as yours. "
>>>My friends no better than to try to do this. Actually I let the whole safety/security thing get my panties in a little twist quite a lot.
moon in cancer
Libra:
Contrary to popular opinion, your specialty, Libra, is not "balance" itself, it's restoring balance to unbalanced situations. So what you can't stand, more than anything else, is seeing lopsided, prejudiced, unfair, or discriminatory conditions. It brings out the cruise director, mediator, and judge in you. In other words, you put your own feelings aside to become whatever it takes to make things "nice" again.
>>>>As much as I might like to say "Life isn't fair - get a helmet" to myself ... the reason I say it so much is that I am trying to convince myself that it's true and calm myself down because actually this stuff sets me off badly.
pluto in libra (square moon)
Scorpio:
I only get annoyed with shallow stuff when people take that critical step from focusing on the surface to denying that anything beneath the face value has value - or suppressing the inner life of others. It depends.
The surface has its place - but so do the depths.
uranus in scorpio
Sagittarius:
Someone told me once that "If you are bored that means you are boring." It seems like nothing to get antsy about to me - just go do something fun. It's the responsibility of the individual here I think and if you are bored its your own fault.
neptune in sagittarius
Capricorn:
When it comes to taking charge, while you may occasionally pretend you don't absolutely adore it, to be perfectly honest, you know you do - and you know we all love it when you're "driving," because you're so good at it. So what absolutely makes you nuts is having to take orders from someone who's not only less qualified than yourself, but also pitifully less suited to the position. Fortunately, that doesn't happen much, now does it?
>>>This only bugs me if I am then held responsible for he idiot's decisions or when the lack of qualification leads to really ridiculous nonsense that threatens my own position. Who wouldn't be annoyed with this though?
Aquarius:
You're the rebel, the radical, and the eccentric in every group, whether it's family, friends, or your team at work. You love and cultivate those labels because of the freedom they allow you to be yourself. The worst thing, then - the very worst thing of all, in your eyes - is being pressed into a mold, being told what to do, having to obey, and being forced to act like everyone else. It's simply not acceptable - and it doesn't happen often…
>>>Actually it can only happen if I choose to allow it to happen - I am free by definition ...
and there is not a darn thing anyone can do about it :D
Pisces:
Your specialty, Pisces, is emotions, maybe even more so than sentimental Cancer. You're comfortable sniffling and dabbing at your eyes during a sad movie (or a commercial, for that matter) and rather - no, extremely - proud of your ability to sense what's wrong with a loved one before they even realize it themselves. So what makes you most irritated is when someone tells you you're being "overly emotional." After all, in your eyes (which is what matters), can you ever be too emotional?
>>>It hurts but I've gotten used to it and given in. Most people can't handle it when others are emotional around them. Fine.
See I think it all depends.
It isn't necessarily just sun sign stuff although it could be taken that way.
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Mon, October 12, 2009 - 5:02 PM"I'd also like to note that it seems to me that some people get off on the feeling of being peeved while others try to find some way to unpeeve themselves."
Very well put, riptide!
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Mon, October 12, 2009 - 2:48 PMI take EXXXXTREME issue with people that avoid confrontation. God, if you know i'm pissed, and you try to run and hide from me, the verbal (or maybe even physical) beatdown WILL be 10x worse, trust. Even with someone who is pissed with me, i like it when someone comes right out and says " I'm pissed, and this is why" rather that be all passive-agressive and not call for days, then when i do finally get in-touch with you, you simply say, "Oh, i wasn't speaking to you, i was mad with you."
Another for me are people who don't take things seriously. I hate those "Free Spirit" types, always going on about how life is about having fun, and how you should "Live for today". If you live your life carelessly, how do you expect to learn anything, how do you expect to mature as a person? I take everything i do seriously, so if you don't take life seriously, you're stupid, and i won't take you seriously. Those "Free Spirit" types, i just want to slap them, so i'l just call that one an "Incompatiblility"
A great big one are emotional people who aren't aware of their emotions. This one drains me to no end. I don't mind emotional people, but emotional people who have no idea as to what they are feeling, at whatever time and why annoy the shit out of me. Then, when it's all over they forget that they were even feeling that way in the first place. I think you should always know where your emotions are coming from, and you should be able to idenify those emotions as what they are when you are feeling them. It's about being in-touch with yourself and with your emotions, and people who aren't really get to me in the worst way.
Sorry, i don't know where that rant even came from! I don't know what it has to do with astrology, but thanks for letting me vent! :) -
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Thu, October 15, 2009 - 2:04 AMAminah,
ummm. I'm a free spirit and I take like seriously
Where does that put me on your hate list?
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Fri, October 16, 2009 - 2:25 AMAminah,
I was going to ask the same question lol. I'm as free spirited as there is but life is looked at in a very serious manner here.
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Wed, October 14, 2009 - 8:56 AMHmmm I find that physical and mental slowness kind of perturb me. . . I really appreciate most gemini types--the ones that aren't socially awkward. Although I myself have a preponderance of taurus in my chart (asc, venus), I really can't stand when people take forever to finish a task or don't get jokes, or are just plain dumb. I actually really like pretty much everything else about taurus energy except the fact that sometimes these people are slowpokes.
I also occasionally get annoyed with pompous aquarius types that don't really understand emotion or who are very insensitive. Maybe this is the taurus in me speaking? I'm not sure.
Also, for some reason I always clash with pisces moon (and mars) people. I find them very difficult to understand and at least the ones I've known have been on many occasions, too sensitive and too often become pushovers, etc. . . I'm sure that's not everyone with a pisces moon / mars though (?)
Finally, my capricorn mars is always very turned off by those who have a hard time controlling their tempers / outbursts of emotion. I find myself commonly repelled by leo and sag (and occasionally gemini) mars people (not aries--I get along with them quite well) and while around these people, find myself thinking "how can someone really be that excited all the time?" I don't get it. . . -
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Wed, October 14, 2009 - 9:43 AM<Leo moth head with a Pisces Mars pops up over the post.>
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Wed, October 14, 2009 - 6:55 PMMy pompous aquarius like self would, say, yes, but doesnt everyone have a little of each of these 12 within them.
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Wed, October 14, 2009 - 10:36 PM"I also occasionally get annoyed with pompous aquarius types that don't really understand emotion or who are very insensitive."
My ex-bf was an Aquarius, and it irritated the heck out of me when he would act all pompous and like a know-it-all =/ And since I'm a Pisces Sun I have a hard time tolerating people who seem insensitive. I'm not saying all Aquarius' are like that because my new bf is also an Aquarius Sun (and Scorpio Moon) and he doesn't act that way so much.
Physical and mental slowness irritates me sometimes too, probably because my Moon is in Gemini, and I have Aries rising. Passive aggressive always gets to me too.. they need to be able to just say what they mean lol. For some reason some Sagittarius' seem to kind of bug me too, I'm not real sure why though, but I think it might be because some of them seem to talk and talk and talk :D And I'm more of a quiet person who needs my space :) But I always get along well with Scorpios born on a Sag cusp or Scorpios with a Sag Moon, but I get along well with Scorpios anyway.
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Wed, October 14, 2009 - 10:43 PM"Finally, my capricorn mars is always very turned off by those who have a hard time controlling their tempers / outbursts of emotion."
April, you have a Capricorn Mars like I do I just noticed, and I also feel the same way. I can't tolerate or understand people who can't control their tempers or their anger. Anyone who has no self-control is hard for me to be around.
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Thu, October 15, 2009 - 3:14 AMApril
I don't know if you have any idea who Tito Ortiz is. He's a former MMA fighter. He has Mars in Capricorn and isn't someone who's known to be able to keep his cool. A friend also has Mars in Capricorn and has a bit more than a temper. He goes through periods where he does control it,but painstakingly so. When he was younger he struggled with it more than he does now. His Mars does square a Saturn-Pluto conjunction.
My point is a sign doesn't usually tell-all from what I've seen. Aspects and other factors can shake things up a wee bit
Another former MMA fighter, ex-light heavy weight champ Chuck Liddell has Mars in Pisces and based on the laundry list of fighters he put to sleep in his time, I'd hardly call him a pushover. It does *trine Jupiter in Scorpio and also forms a sextile with Saturn. Mars-Saturn soft aspects often note an indomitable will.
Then again, Marylin Monroe had Mars conjunct Uranus in Pisces with a trine to Saturn in Scorpio and while not known as a pushover from what I gather she was known to be erratic and her moods were completely unpredictable. Especially in her later acting years in the late 50's. While filming "Some Like It Hot" director Billy Wilder noted how unruly and difficult she was to work with. Constantly being late, forgetting lines and taking little jokes and pokes at her far too sensitively.
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Thu, October 15, 2009 - 3:59 AM"My point is a sign doesn't usually tell-all from what I've seen. Aspects and other factors can shake things up a wee bit"
As I said, this post was just meant as mindless entertainment and only focused on the signs, not the aspects or other factors in a chart (of which there are many). Most of us identify with a particular sign, whether it is because it is a sign of our Sun, or other planets that are strong in our chart.
Obviously our charts have all 12 signs, but there is often one or more areas that are emphasized in a natal birth chart. Some people are even born with almost all of their planets in one sign, so that sign is expressed more purely. My father is a good example, as he has 5 planets in Gemini (and two in Virgo - so very Mercurial). -
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Thu, October 15, 2009 - 4:52 AM"As I said, this post was just meant as mindless entertainment and only focused on the signs, not the aspects or other factors in a chart (of which there are many). Most of us identify with a particular sign, whether it is because it is a sign of our Sun, or other planets that are strong in our chart. "
I guess "most of us" doesn't include me
I'm terrible at following directions
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Thu, October 15, 2009 - 4:37 AMWhen I have set my mind on something and I get the ball rolling I am very impatient. Guilty as charged. Day to day, I don't have a real problem with people who's pace is slower than mine, but people who are abnormally slow and don't seem to understand why it is a problem........not so good. Especially when they give me that " deer in the headlights " look when asked..........then told.....to pick up the pace.
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Sure, the economy is poor. Its a time to make sure you have reserve funds. But when times are good, people that obsess over pennies,cost and effort to the point that they squeeze the joy out of anything and everything............are really sad. There is a lot of injustice in the world. Much to be bitter about. But, people who are bitter over relatively minor/understandable things such as leaving the thermostat a few degrees under 80 in the summer at night (costing a whopping .40 extra on the electric bill) or people who seem driven solely by a fault-finding temperment with little to no idea of what "constructive" means, really get on my nerves. This usually points to an afflicted Virgo placement or hard aspects between Saturn and Mercury or other personal planets. I see it all the time and its a shame. I "had" to put a guy in his place at a local supermarket not long ago. He was yelling at his very young daughter for bringing Skippy peanut butter to the cart............instead of the cheap store brand. He threw the Skippy back at her and told her to get the cheap brand. The sad thing was that when I stepped in I had him reveal what he did for a living. Apparently he owns several businesses including a Marina at a nearby lake. That extra .50 cents on a jar of peanut butter justified the bruise she probably had on her leg and I'm sure it would have really made it hard to make that BMW payment. Anyway,he was out of line and inconsiderate and I did what I felt I had to do there. Basically, people who can't be constructive won't like me very much.
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People who use other people solely for their own aims. I have noticed that typical Capricorns are generally the worst at this. Not controlling and manipulative the way Scorpios usually are,but crafty and plotting in a more superficial way.
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People who flock to other people,but don't think for themselves and have no sense of individuality other than how they are complimented by other people.
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Thu, October 15, 2009 - 9:47 AM"People who use other people solely for their own aims. I have noticed that typical Capricorns are generally the worst at this. Not controlling and manipulative the way Scorpios usually are,but crafty and plotting in a more superficial way."
It's funny because I hear about things like this about Capricorns a lot, but I have a Capricorn Sun friend (and she has a Scorpio Moon), and she's not like that at all. She never tries to use people and she's very honest, and not crafty at all. Sure she is very careful about revealing too much of her emotions, and she's very cautious and slow to trust people, but she is one of the warmest ,most caring people I know. -
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Thu, October 15, 2009 - 12:50 PM
"It's funny because I hear about things like this about Capricorns a lot, but I have a Capricorn Sun friend (and she has a Scorpio Moon), and she's not like that at all. "
I agree, I think that's actually a huge misconception of capricorn all in all. I would even go as far as to say that if a cap influenced person has this trait it's due to some other placement.
I would actually attribute the using-other-people-trait to the negative airsigns qualities, such as libra or the other airsigns because of their focus and concern with social order, standards and other people. Capricorn is only focused on its own practical reality and doesn't care much about what others do or don't. -
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Thu, October 15, 2009 - 1:31 PM"I agree, I think that's actually a huge misconception of capricorn all in all. I would even go as far as to say that if a cap influenced person has this trait it's due to some other placement.
I would actually attribute the using-other-people-trait to the negative airsigns qualities, such as libra or the other airsigns because of their focus and concern with social order, standards and other people. Capricorn is only focused on its own practical reality and doesn't care much about what others do or don't. "
I don't think its a "huge misconception" in the least ,as a hallmark Capricorn trait is to utilize people and resources as part of their day to day strategy. They typically associate with people that will aid their "climb". Sure, "other factors" such as aspect patterns and conditions at home can alter things for better or for worse,but they don't erase the core traits. Capricorn being "only focused on its own practical reality and doesn't care much about what others do or don't" sounds like an opinion perhaps based on your own experiences.
Again on Martin Luther King, Jr., he seemed far from "not caring much about what others do or don't" as he tirelessly attempted to inspire other people to act differently than they do in order to change the world in which we live. He deeply cared about what others did or didn't do, as evident by his Pisces moon.
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Thu, October 15, 2009 - 3:54 PMZayne
But Martin Luther King did have mercury in aquarius and mars in gemini.
Politics is actually an aquarius thing, and he did have mercury in aquarius which stands for the focus on change in society and devotion to minority groups. Aquarius is the humanitarian sign.
What his cap sun did was trying to inflict new morals and valus within people. Capricorn as a sign isn't very interested in the social network or interactions with people etc, BUT capricorns alarm go off when they feel that someone doesn't act the way they see proper.
The hallmark capricorn likes to teach about dicipline, ethics and morals because they are at their best when they follow their own self-dicipline and ethics themselves, which they think others should do as well.
But it doesn't have much to do with any focus on the social network. They focus on their own stuff until their alarm goes off telling someones morals aren't good. -
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Fri, October 16, 2009 - 4:21 AMsugarmoonpoision -
Absolutely. Aquarius is the humanitarian sign. Uranian energy certainly is the champion of the underdog (the minority) and it does represent change ,not only in society but also change of individual conciousness and awareness of the whole. But political? Politics are created around Uranian ideals,but politics themselves are heavily run by Capricorn types. Reliable,methodical,status-seeking Capricorns. Aquarius might show up in the chart adding a much-needed sense of objectivity. Their love of dialectic draws them to politics like a magnet also. Last and certainly not least, Capricorns love of authority naturally gravitates them to prestigious political positions. Unfortunately, many are corrupt and don't show sound morals or ethics. This isn't exclusive to Capricorns though......
Martin Luther King Jr also had a substantial Grand Trine between Jupiter-Saturn-Neptune with Uranus squaring Saturn. No doubt a tremendous driving force for change in his personality. -
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Fri, October 16, 2009 - 8:16 AMZayne
"Politics are created around Uranian ideals,but politics themselves are heavily run by Capricorn types. Reliable,methodical,status-seeking Capricorns...[ ]... Last and certainly not least, Capricorns love of authority naturally gravitates them to prestigious political positions. "
Yeah I agree with this and what you're basically saying. Although I'm still not personally sure if capricorn seeks status or if I think that's an air quality. I know traditional astrology says that capricorn does but I'm not sure myself yet.
Also, I think that aquarius influenced people that I've come across through the years have been much more into political debates and all that much more so that capricorn influenced people.
But I do agree that capricorn to some extent relates to politics as well since saturn is traditionally speaking the political planet.
Although I think the thing is that it's actually changed, nowadays politics is actually more about aquarius than capricorn, while c a 50 years ago or even 20 years ago it was much more about capricorn because the old dinosaurs were still around.
Politics aren't exactly what they used to be so nowadays it's a bit more about aquarius than dear old cap I think. -
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Sat, October 17, 2009 - 1:42 AMsugarmoonpoision -
you made an interesting point about politics of yesterday and the politics of now. It does seem like in years past that "tried and true" seemed to be more prevailant throughout politics and in government in general. Perhaps the transition into the Aquarian Age has influenced a shift in global political/governmental conciousness. Uranus and Neptune recently passed through Aquarius over the last decade and 1/2.
Revolutionary ideas have been put into action. The events on 9/11/01 are an example
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Sat, October 17, 2009 - 8:52 AMI think you might want to take Pluto in Capricorn into account now. It ain't just Saturn & Uranus anymore. Now we have the big gun, and Cap is still very much in the picture. Interesting times.
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Re: Astrological Pet Peeves
Sun, October 18, 2009 - 2:17 PMzayne, sugarmoon
I kind of see both cap and aquarius as political in some ways. both signs have a lot of self reliance, but i would say capricorn is more focused on leading by example and aquarius is about surfing on the waters of change and brotherhood.
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Thu, October 15, 2009 - 1:15 PMHeather -
Thats why I used the words "typical" and "generally" because I know this isn't "always" the case. I'll never meet everyone in the world,but of the(4) Capricorn women and (3) Capricorn men that I have known for years.........this is certainly the case.
Martin Luther King Jr was a Capricorn with a Pisces moon and its pretty clear that the rights of others were more important to him than any selfish desires
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Re: Astrological Pet Peeves
Thu, October 15, 2009 - 10:37 PM""People who use other people solely for their own aims. I have noticed that typical Capricorns are generally the worst at this. Not controlling and manipulative the way Scorpios usually are,but crafty and plotting in a more superficial way." "
Actually, I'd say that's typical for Libra/Capricorn energy combination. I know two guys that are big on those influences, and they're the type that never stop looking for ways to improve their social status-most apparent is that they pick trophy-girlfriends, that they can show off to their friends.
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Thu, October 15, 2009 - 7:28 AMBoyfriend is Mars in Capricorn. He was former Special Forces with the British Army. Always up for a bar brawl when he was young. Got himself certified in several martial arts. -
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Fri, October 16, 2009 - 12:09 AM"People who use other people solely for their own aims. I have noticed that typical Capricorns are generally the worst at this. Not controlling and manipulative the way Scorpios usually are,but crafty and plotting in a more superficial way."
MY Capricorns try this... it's kinda cute... how miserably they fail.......... :(
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Fri, October 16, 2009 - 4:26 AMStacy -
My Grandpa is a Capricorn with every personal planet in Capricorn. A very smooth operator, very much the plotter. Unfortunately for him, Grandma is a Scorpio (Mercury,Venus and Jupiter also in Scorpio)
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Fri, October 16, 2009 - 4:47 AMNothing like marital harmony and balance.
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Fri, October 16, 2009 - 5:20 AMSounds like my boyfriend. My boyfriend has Jupiter on cusp, moon, Saturn, Mars in Capricorn. And I've got MC, Uranus, Mars and Venus in Scorpio.
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Fri, October 16, 2009 - 2:44 AM1. Gemini(Moon, Venus, Mercury)- Extra slow people bother me immensely. I hate having to say things twice, do things twice. Just pay attention the first time. Im always work do things fast. Speeding, working, homework. I just gotta move as quickly and efficiently as possible.
2. Cancer( Sun)- If I'm on my chill mode, leave me the hell alone lol. Leave it to my Aqua, Aries and Leo friends to annoy the hell outta me when all I wanna do is chill at my house haha.
3.Scorpio(ASC)- That is the essence of my nature. I need to dig deep on everything(Mercury in 8H). And when others try to hide something from me, I always find it out. By any means necessary lol.
4. Taurus(Jupiter)- I do things on my own pace. You rush me, I purposely slow down. Especially when I move so quick anyways. Plain and simple. One of my biggest pet peeves by far. Not so big on surprises either. -
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Fri, October 16, 2009 - 4:22 AMArghhhhh! Just met a client who has forced me to conform! It's a tough upper lip company; there is no bonding among teammates, all of them are feeling stretched and fucked up.
When I met the boss I was asked to wear a suit, and I did. The next time I had a meeting with a few staff I wore a dress. And I was enroute to a party. I got shot down by the client's people saying that what I was wearing was inappropriate. I would expect one or two comments about it but didn't expect to be shot down. It's a long sleeved dress and a high neck but fairly high hemline.
The Aquarian in me doesn't like it. I don't I don't I don't! This is precisely why I NEVER ever ever work for anyone but me.
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Sat, October 17, 2009 - 1:21 PMI have weird reactions to people who channel all of their energy into money, either talking about making money, talking about business and success..those kinds of things. I understand theyre important to some people, but I ve never been able to relate my sense of meaning for living to those things specifically. I do understand that sustenance and stability are the backbone of survival and many things I love about life wouldn't be possible without these things but Its when people loose sight of why they are living and focus too much on how to live ..when they forget to actually enjoy themselves... they'll always talk about each tiny financial failure, and i dont understand why worrying about what you've lost becomes so much of how you live your life. I am not sure if this is capricorn? or earth signs in general that i would associate this to. I have a hard time blaming one sign or a group of signs for something. I think its also interesting that I am willing to admit these pet peeves to myself in financial areas and in doing so realize that I have a similar issue with culture/society/mental health and well being. I can be very concerned with those things, and too much so where I forget to just live and keep moving faithfully in the direction I know i should be. I am way watery/fire and not so much earth in my chart... so this makes sense!
noticing faults has always been a great way to look deeper into ones ownself i think.
I think theres a lot about capricorn that i find really difficult to tap into, but i realize that its something i really really need to focus on. I LOVE how capricorn's, or highly evolved capricorns do things for themselves, they create something you can hold onto, they have GREAT footing. I feel so scattered and skeptical most of the time. I know that thats part of capricorn too, or at least my version of capricorn in my chart (neptune and jupiter in cap) and maybe ill grow into these things later in life, i think specifically my sore spot is saturn in the 9th house... I have such a distracted way about life, like i am waiting for proof or something to magically appear... I really want the determination and strength to create my own reality and my own meaning... such a powerful place to be, if its done with good balance and thorough thoughtfulness.. one day one day. -
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Sun, October 18, 2009 - 3:53 AMVery important observation baby egg
Personally, the idea of "money" was originally well-intended as a means of bardering for things of need but it has steadily grown into a crutch in the society we've created to this point. So many people focus solely on money itself to buy the things people want to feel comfortable or secure. We've created our own black hole.
I do what I have to day to day to provide the things I need,but I envision a world where 80% of life is not wasted laboring in a failing economy , in a relatively unimportant "job" that is given greater importance than it deserves in order to justify the "grand machine" that is Industry and economics wether it be a C.E.O. of a fortune 500 company or a checker at a local grocery store. FAR too much time is devoted to soullessness for the sake of the industrial machine and comfort in the material world that many people never take the chance to know themselves beyond their media-implanted needs and desires. People can become so greedy for money and arbitrary security that it becomes them.
I believe in a world where politics,materialism and religion do NOT dominate. I believe we can establish our own strong identity as spiritual beings without one of the 3 forementioned crutches.
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Sun, October 18, 2009 - 4:27 AMzayne,
yes, money is a crutch. a lot of times its usually filling some kind of emotional hole in someones life i think. I dont think its completely all bad though.. you can do a lot of good with money. When I have extra money i try to shop locally and sustainably, when i am poor i have to go to safeway maybe? so it can work in a good way too!
I would be so relieved to know that our work meant something meaningful too. i think human evolution is slow.. somethings get reevaluated because they need to and later in the process we discover a whole new set of problems! I guess we can all hope that we can say we've tried it all and that we're well rounded, sophisticated explorers of sociological progression. maybe theres a few bad seeds keeping the rest of us held down, but a few is better than most! -
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Sun, October 18, 2009 - 5:38 PMbaby egg,
I certainly agree. You can do a lot of good with money. In fact, you could say Robin Hood is my kind of spender :-)
Unfortunately, human evolution is in fact slow. Like a slug, it seems. You can sweep the floor all you want,but the dust will soon fall again! Unfortuantely also, babies aren't born with all knowledge of previous human evolution......or are they/we? hmmmmmmm -
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Sun, October 18, 2009 - 5:59 PMzayne,
I think there might be something like the collective unconscious, what jung talked about. a lot of animals have these kinds of evolutionary memories, ants and bees are a great example, maybe fish too? i think its the animals that operate more collectively....and I think humans share some of these traits? Maybe less now that we're scattered and disconnected? I know i have certain impulses to learn about my heritage, and I can connect with some very ancient ideologies. I think this is why we are slow to change, memory seems to help us grow and at the same time keep us back. we pass on our life experiences to each generation, like we're building something from each one, but there are times that what we're carrying with us and what we've always depended on becomes useless depending on the circumstances of a time period. so it can be either way.
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Sun, October 18, 2009 - 6:02 PMapparently ants are the most dangerous species on the planet, ive heard! because they pass their information so quickly. every ant communicates everything thats happen to every other ant, or at least the information most useful. once an ant dies, an ant that comes in close contact with him, receives all the information of his death and can use that information for his own/collective good. its insane. i saw a documentary about it a while ago... i still have trouble swallowing it.
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Sun, October 18, 2009 - 4:00 AMBaby egg
"I have weird reactions to people who channel all of their energy into money, either talking about making money, talking about business and success..those kinds of things. I understand theyre important to some people, but I ve never been able to relate my sense of meaning for living to those things specifically. I do understand that sustenance and stability are the backbone of survival and many things I love about life wouldn't be possible without these things but Its when people loose sight of why they are living and focus too much on how to live ..when they forget to actually enjoy themselves... they'll always talk about each tiny financial failure, and i dont understand why worrying about what you've lost becomes so much of how you live your life."
I so couldn't agree more these are my thoughts exactly.
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Sun, October 18, 2009 - 4:30 AMsugarmoon!
its cool you could relate.
these are the major parts of my chart
my sun, venus is in pisces, mercury in aries 1st house, mars trine sun, neptune square sun/mercury. moon in libra opposite mercury in aries, jupiter in cap t square. pluto in scorpio in the 8th house, aquarius rising, uranus in the 10th -
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Sun, October 18, 2009 - 5:48 AMBaby egg
I see. I usually relate very well to people with pisces placements for some reason. I don't have a planet in pisces but I guess it's all my water and oppositions to neptune... And we're both watersigns. -
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Sun, October 18, 2009 - 5:53 AMOh wait... What's your mars sign? It must be in cancer or scorpio? If it is it would explain it even more since I've got sun in cancer and moon in scorpio... -
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Sun, October 18, 2009 - 2:18 PMsugarmoon,
my mars is in scorpio, i guess its obvious!
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Re: Astrological Pet Peeves
Mon, October 19, 2009 - 10:10 PMuranus in H10 could point to a certain degree of rebelliion against some commonly held notions regarding success and career and things.
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Sun, October 18, 2009 - 4:03 AMBaby egg
I'm curious about your chart since I am the exact same way and I wonder what we have in common astrologically. Whats the signs of your inner planets + asc and mc and what is your conjunctions or oppositions to these? -
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Sun, October 18, 2009 - 8:05 AMIf you are mid to late Aquarius rising, someone else's Pisces placements will be in your 1st house by synastry. 1st house placements in synastry are known to attribute to immediate attraction; the 'you light up my life' effect.
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Mon, October 19, 2009 - 10:09 PMMaybe some 2nd house stuff relates to your thoughts on success and money - possibly H10 as well?
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