iM A Cancer (july 4th) and for some strangeeeee reasons, I find Sagitarious man very so stractive...its never a physical thing, is always a strange magnetism that draws me to them. It could be that they are very adverturous, crazy fun, spontaneous etc...whatever!
For this reason, 99% of my most intense/serious relationships HAD BEEN SAGITARIOUS!!!
The downfall of this is that all those past realtionships have ended up in some crazy harrasment drama (from their part towards me) and in very shady terms. Even tho Im so aware of this I cant help become MAGNETIZED to them before I even know that they are sagitarious! This patterned broke down when I met my actual lover who is a SCORPIO (very different than sags) But the trend continues tho...I still have that crazy luv for the !/2 horse being! (fuk) .
For this reason, 99% of my most intense/serious relationships HAD BEEN SAGITARIOUS!!!
The downfall of this is that all those past realtionships have ended up in some crazy harrasment drama (from their part towards me) and in very shady terms. Even tho Im so aware of this I cant help become MAGNETIZED to them before I even know that they are sagitarious! This patterned broke down when I met my actual lover who is a SCORPIO (very different than sags) But the trend continues tho...I still have that crazy luv for the !/2 horse being! (fuk) .
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I'm a Cancer woman. I go to Sag men when I want a physical, no strings attached fling. Otherwise, too much drama, too obtuse, and too much brutal but unreflective honesty for me. But the physical part -- ride 'em cowgirl! :-)
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heehe Ok I have to re word that...Im always atracted to them because they are intense, the physical, part comes after & MY GOD!! yep! its amazing!!!
U r soo rite!
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As a sagittarius man, I am loving this discussion.
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Unsu...
Funny...I have the opposire reaction to Sag's...both men and women.... Nothing personal Jorga..... Thier frenetic energy drives me crazy and all I want them to do is sit down and be still!!
NO chemistry with them all at...thus far...hopefully there will be an exception to that rule.
Now...if we want to talk sexual chemistry.... of course there's the Scorp connection...which works for me..but Capricorns are what blow my Cancerian mind....have never had such good sex before...or since.
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>>but Capricorns are what blow my Cancerian mind....have never had such good sex before...or since. <<
Sex with a Capricorn? Yes, please!
Relationship with a Capricorn? Open the refrigerator, I want to get warm!
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sagittarius... bad bad bad bad bad bad bad bad bad bad bad relationship matches for cancers usually. I have a sag moon so I can tolerate them. Ive even been involved with a few of them... but BAD BAD BAD BAD otherwise. Sagi's words are writ on water.. they mean what they say at the time they say it but theyre too wishy washy, flakey, unpredictable and on the prowl for me to deal with it. Ditto on the drama factor too.
However, if youre looking for an INTENSE connection, you were right to go with a Scorp. No better experience IMHO. Cappi's also left me cold. Cant deal with anyone born between Nov22 & Feb22 on the norm.
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saggitarious' are cool, but I have a BIG problem with virgos!!!! Almost everyone I know is a damn virgo! They are SOOOOOO unemotional. So sagitarius' are the least of your problems lol!!!Oh yeah, I know this cuz Imma cancer as well.
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You've had sex with Virgos, autumn? How did you get them to relax enough to take any item of clothing off? What's the secret?
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Cynthia, getting a Virgo in bed is very easy. What turns us off is emotional hysterics, indecisiveness, and being too possesive. With a Virgo be direct, talk and, make eye contact, then carress the arm, let them know you are interested. We worry about misreading another person's intentions, and offending them so we play it safe. Hope this gets you a Virgo.
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That is an awsome discription for a virgo William! As you may know, Cancers are very a manulative, therefore, it doesnt take much for a cancer like me to hiding my emotional side, until things get serious, then all hell brakes loose with a virgo! So if your just sleeping with them dear cynthia you shouldnt have any problems lol!!!!!
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... I can vouch for this. Let a Virgo know you want him, don't over-do it... and he will show you his bag of tricks (ohmigod, Virgo's are TEH SEX), but I think they come into an emotionality later in life when they feel they can trust themselves better.
I have to stay away from them, tho... they can wound me like no other.
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>>What turns us off is emotional hysterics, indecisiveness, and being too possesive<<
Thank you, you just explained something important to me. That was precisely what happened with a love at first sight thing I had...towards a Virgo. I was intense as usual (Cancer and Scorpio Rising here), a little nervous myself and expressive about it, and wanted a real connection. In our discussions about a relationship he asked me what my financial expectations of a man were while dating? I was like what????
I'm not in love these days. I've dated some Sag men but find them very very selfish and brutal in the opinion department.
I wish I could calculate the best astrological match and then find him *somewhere*. Where is that executive with an artistic edge and emotional depth and a little bit of 'loves a naughty girl' kink?
*sigh*
Well I'll just have fun for now.
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I agree with you for the most part that Virgo as a sun sign makes them unemotional. But being a Virgo sun, Cancer moon, I know I can be very emotional, sometimes too much so. It all depends on what sign the person's planets are in. For me, even when I seem calm and collected that could not be further from the truth and my mind is going 1,000 miles a minute. It also depends what mood you catch me in. But I would identify much more with being a Cancer. I like all of the things typically associated w/ being a Cancer sun. I LOVE cooking, being a homebody, that sort of thing. But I can also be mood and have a tendency to mother everyone. Maybe that's my Cancerian moon showing. I don't know. Sagitarrius (fire sign)I think are very sexy and good-looking (my venus is in Leo, another fire sign) but in my experience they are too much of a flake, too flighty and irresponsible.
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That's because us Sags have more spice than the Fregal Gourmet baby girl. We live life to the fullest and I mean fullest!
I didnt say smartest tho. Sex,Food and the Great outdoors is all we need and all we really want unless we get lonely then thats when we go and screw your world up!
Trust me Sags are the shiznit but yes we are Crazy as all hell!
]Christ just look at my a.s.s not literally its a little hairy but hey you win some you lose some!
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i am a sag rising with a cancer moon........yes capricorns are hot in bed! i've had one and he had a scorpio moon.......i think he was one of the best sex partners i have had......but then he cold hearted dished me! so who freakin knows about them capi's........
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>>We live life to the fullest and I mean fullest!
I didnt say smartest tho<<
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i don't know what got that kid running......i am a scorpio(i don't think i mentioned that before)........basically the kid was all about me and then boom....gone! he claims i got "bored" with him one night, which is bull! now, yes in the end after weeks of him dissing me i freaked out like a typical scorpio.......i guess its ok now b/c maybe i am better off.......i hear he's in a dark space.........
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It looks like you ran into the the cancer moon need for intimacy and complete diclosure versus the Scorpio moon need for mysteriousness. Complete disclosure for a Scorpio moon would mean boredom. In order to be happy they want to stay an Enigma. So leave him with a few secrets if you want to have him still hang around
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I am ga-ga for Sag men, too. They shine.
My parents are Sags and I was raised by my grandma who is a Scorp cusp Sag... but I don't think I have really been with a Sag for some reason. One thing that turns me off about them is that they can have absolutely no couth. They can hurt you with the things they say and not care or notice. I'm a Libra cusp Scorp... I wish I had less water in my chart, but I don't... so I can be very sensitive and they can be oblivious to my sensitivity... but I still want them. *grins* To me, they are the most attractive, forbidden fruit in the chart. -
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Oh wow yor telling me I'm a sun pisces, moon cancer,accendant rising Sag. and this guy.... NO I mean man that has me going totally bizirk is a Sag he is the only person that has EVER gotten me off my game and always catches me off guard its down right nerve wracking I'm an exellant judge of people and I just can't pinpoint him he has me compleatly infactuated and I don't even know why lol.
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You are all crazy!! Never in life do I want
another Scorpio(all of that aloofness is for the
birds!)or Virgo(cold, and weird sexual things
going on!)
I love my Sag self to bits, but I'll admit
I drive myself crazy, so I know what I
do to other people. Have never had a Sag
man- can never catch just the one I want
but it feels good being around them 'cause
they get me. What I really want for
Christmas, tho is a Taurus! Got stuck to
one like a kitchen magnet! Love the tongue!!
Love it, love it, love it.......
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Unsu...
i'm a cancer cusp with Sagitarious in my 1st house
and my brother is a Sagitarious and he is um... an *ass* on good days (supa short fuse) ...some of my best friends (women) are Sagitarious though, so what i have found is that overall when things are good they are really good *nonstop fun* but things can decline quickly and it can get real ugly fast...
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I'm a Cancer woman who used to be married to a Sag man.
The marriage lasted 2 years before I cut my losses.
It was like being married to a 12-year-old. All he wanted to do was play computer games, go snowboarding, and surf porn. I had to quit chiropractic school and go to work full time because he'd rather live off our wedding money than work. Someone had to support the family!
He would say hurtful things all the time - the Sag sense of humor doesn't jibe well with the hypersensitivity of Cancerians.
What I liked about him was his charm and fun. He also had impeccible taste.
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Yeah, I almost forgot about the lazy side of
Sag men. I have a cousin born on the same
date as me, and he always dated older women
who could take care of him. I don't get it. The
females don't seem to be that way.
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Alicia,
Not intending to be hurtful, but LOL! I am in the middle of divorcing a Sag man, and believe me, I know what you mean about beibg married to a 12 year old. It's weird, especially that my oldest child is now 13 and more emotionally mature than her Dad.
Ditto on the hurtful tongue. Ouch. I'm Taurus sun, Libra moon, Aquarius rising - I always give folks the benefit of the doubt, and then some, but I can't overlook the nastiness anymore.
Hope things got better for yoyu since you cut him loose.
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Nastiness is one thing. I've found Sag's have unrepentant barbed cluelessness!
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Just trying to be honest. We usually
prefer to get things out in the open
and straight; less mess to untangle
later. Some are just a little more blunt
than others. Sagittarian logic is
definitely not for everybody. Just
like the sting of the scorpion tail, for
example.
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"It was like being married to a 12-year-old. All he wanted to do was play computer games, go snowboarding, and surf porn. I had to quit chiropractic school and go to work full time because he'd rather live off our wedding money than work. Someone had to support the family! "
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IT REALLY depends on the Sag. I am a Sag, and I had a lovely year and a half long realtionship with a super sweetie cancer, it was great, and we are still friends.
Yes, we are wild and crazy, and tons of fun, but if you find the better sag's out there, we are also well tempered, sensitive, open, totally reflective, patient, loving, gentle, comitted even. I know I am, and I know quite a few other Sag's a lot like me. I really think it has to do with how one works with the tendencies we are born with, and of course, the rest of the natal chart (as well as transits occuring, etc...). I've met cancers that are totally annoying wet blankets, even to other water signs, and I've met cancers who are outgoing and vivacious while still being tender and nuturing.
it's too easy generalize. But, from a sun perspective, Sag and Cancer is a bad idea, but the reality can be really good when you look at the whole chart and the composite chart. It really depends. Perhaps the original poster's attraction to Sag men has to do with a parent, or a quality that is inherent in sag that she latently has or needs to develop????
Having mars in Sag, I too am really attracted to Sag's! I Love thos bubbly impulsive wild firey peeps. I guess it's just hardwired into me......
most of the women I REALLY get hot for have Sag rising. Anyone else ever notice tendency towards being attracted to people whose rising is conjunct your mars?????
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Well said Dave - I think you really have to take the whole chart into account absolutely, as well as your year of birth and of course so many other factors, environment, family and friends.
Since I have a mars in virgo it's hard to imagine being hot and heavy for virgos but yeah, I feel drawn to virgos but also sags bc I have venus in sag so I end up either with a lot of people who are sags or have sag rising/mars.
I think we are all looking for our "home" home being the place inside of us, not so much a place outside to live in, but within that makes us feel safe.
Some might find it contradictory that adventure, openmindedness and risk/fun make a sag dominant person feel safe but I think it does. Some people feel fences (not literally but figuratively) make you feel well fenced in, while others feel secure.
I think if we can all step away from generalizations and account for individuality, we will learn that our sun signs although a major part of who we are is not the only part.
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