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NEPTUNE CONJUNCT ASCENDANT GOOD OR BAD THING?

topic posted Sat, April 2, 2011 - 9:19 PM by  ssyx
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Hi all, I have read abt nep conj asc in synastry.. some say its good & some say its bad becos nep is the planet of deception.

My questions here is a double whammy of A's Nep conj B's Asc in saggitarus... and B's Nep square A's Asc What will it mean??
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  • Unsu...
     
    If someone's neptune is on your ascendant, you easily forgive that person any flaws. It's like any neptune conjunction to a personal planet. It reduces the friction and creates a feeling that there's no real boundaries between the two of you.
    If someone's neptune is square your ascendant, most likely there's a habit of telling white lies to each other. It's very hard to be totally honest, somehow you both feel it's better to keep things a bit vague.
    • Unsu...
       
      If you put these things together, you get a relationship where both partners wish to maintain the impression that they have an extraordinary bond. In order to keep that impression in tact, they both subconsciously feel it's better to hide certain things from each other - stuff that might disturb the nice feeling of togetherness.
      • b
        b
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        Ooh, this is timely. I had this question about an hour ago where my bf has his neptune conjunct my DC and I have my Neptune conjunct his AC. I wonder if these two aspects together can be summed up in this conversation. He said, "I feel like I don't have to say everything, and yet you know what I haven't said." and I replied, "I feel like I can say everything without a worry that you might not understand."

        Both pretty big leaps of faith Neptune is so known for.... Also he's a Pisces and I'm a Cancer, so that could also explain it. Haw. I wish I knew if it was really good or bad.
        • Unsu...
           
          What difference would that make? Would you like him more if it was "bad"? Sorry for asking, I guess my take on relationship is a bit off-mainstream (I have lilith conjunct descendant, zero orb, sorry, can't help it).
          • b
            b
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            Would I like him more if it was bad?? Haha. It's just, I'd have to brace myself if it this sort of "belief" in each other is an illusion. You never know. I'm well aware that being vague is very effective for making sure people have a good idea of where you are coming from. :P Most people will fill in the gaps with their own bias and feel more astute or "closer" to the person, I think. Perhaps that effect is amplified when Neptune is on a personal planet/axis. For AC, the outward expression is a fog, but it's comfortable because you can imagine what it means and the other person will allow you that freedom. It's just in my case, he PREFERS that freedom and I completely understand that desire (his words being "I allow people to have their fantasies." he knows what I am doing as well). As long as you KNOW when your in a fantasy, and when you're not, when the other wants it and when they don't, that is the real connection. I think I'm lucky that the Neptune in synastry is prominent with a person who has many personal planets in Pisces already, and where my Neptune is not ill-placed or in any harsh aspects with my own planets, and we are both well grounded with strong earth in our charts (for the original poster, it's very important to see how neptune is configured in the natal chart of each person. the reaction to the neptune/ac aspect might be very different depending, like the person might not want a "fantasy" or they might be frustrated by the "fog", or they think the fantasy is real, etc.).

            Lilith, tee hee.
      • Thank you so much dawn for the clear explanation.

        Personally i think that i am not hiding anything from him (maybe sub conscious i did but i wont know) and our conversations are always direct and smooth... But i am not sure whether he's hiding anything/ sincere abt what he said. When u mentioned that "both partners wish to maintain the impression that they have an extraordinary bond. " I do have this kind of feelings.. whenever we started to talk and interact, i will be in our lala land & my eyes will only see him... even when there are interruptions...

        And that u mentioned "stuff that might disturb the nice feeling of togetherness." I remembered one time when he was about to blow off his taurus temper (becos someone else has press the wrong button on him)... he actually shouted at the person but when he noticed i was a bit shocked staring at both of them... he quickly revert back to his usual happy & buddy mood. After the incident, i had some weird thoughts going on my mind... thinking that why the rapid change of his mood... why dont he just let out his temper and show me the dark side of him?? but on the other thinking that if it was me... i probably will act like him too... (for my venus in the graceful and always nice libra)..
        So most probably these are all the Neptune's doing i guess... I feel Neptune really bad when things turn ugly... It can make ppl go total disappointment...

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