Seduce a Scorpio...?

As a virgo with a venus in scorpio, I've been together with (and had more workable relationships with) scorpios more than any sign.

Here's why I think these relationships work/worked...

I'm honest and innocent to an extreme degree--and very trusting. From what I understand, scorpios don't like to be mistrusted. Scorpios are extremely trustworthy and extremely honest, if they're believed in. I've not developed that weird paranoia that people have had about scorpios, ever. I think that any hesitancy or paranoia or a lack of trust will cause the scorpios to feel crossed. Scorpios...oh, god, I love them...they see the underlying nature of so many things. They offer perspective. Appreciate and honor their ability to see these things. Trust them, love them, and set a precedent for openness with them. They'll trust you back. Don't strategize at all. Just be yourself, be open, be trustworthy/trusting, and that's it. :)

I feel the way to scorpios secret treasures
is to be elaborate and give them hints
a long slow tease that never fails to demonstrate the reality of the promised energy to come...

lick them just next to where they want to be licked
give them a riddle to figure out about yourself
ask their opinion and perceptions of your shortcomings
don't be afraid to tell them theirs

And just like any sign: Look them in the center of their eye and think : I am capable of handling your intensity in fact I CRAVE it...

Good luck with the seduction..scorpio is truly one of the best erotic flavors of the whole gig...

I'm a Libra with a few planets in Scorpio so I may be of some help... or at least willing to try. Message me and we'll see if I'm any use at all :)

Yes....Please stay away from libras. It's only good for a time and is very hard to pull away from.

Also Libra with many...many scorpion tails. There has to be some other sign out there that can truly tame and soothe the scorpio.

I have nothing to say on topic but off topic I do have to say Camille you have gorgeous skin and you are very beautiful. No I am not trying to hit on you and I very much adore males but it had to be said.

:)

I am a goat, part of what I love to do is revenge. What I resent I climb above. Iceberg, goat climbs to the top of it. Eats away at the ice then pisses on the iceberg and melts it away with it's own water.
When you fire a weapon if that round does not hit it's target or any object it simply falls to the ground harmlessly. Goats step on Scopions, and eat them like the little bugs they are. As a goat I never forget. Spell it out be clear mud is what I hate, but I will walk in and out of it clean.
The goat no better friend, no more feared enemy.
And in the end the goat will still be on top.

Sounds simular to a Virgo. Sometimes its easier not to know, what we know. With flaws, it depends on the flaw. Sometimes it better to ignore it, and live with it. Sometimes the flawee needs to be put in the garage, with all the other junk we should throw out, but can't.

This being to Heather.

This is an excellent explanation. You did it justice. I see in myself that I have come to expect certain predictable behaviors in my mate and if he fails to meet those expectations, it shakes my foundations.
I also completely understand that if I betray myself, I will also Punish myself. I will destroy or run off anything or anyone who I care about. My path has been to learn self worth. (Which I still don't get)
If I don't "deserve" something, I will find a way to dispose of it. Whether IT is a material object, a friend, a lover, or anything that I cherish. This is the honest weight that I bear, and you should know that I have never confessed it to anyone.
You should feel special.
Here is an example of my problem:
When I was a little girl - about 7. I overheard a conversation where it was said that people who sleep in the fetal position are insecure and weak. I was determined to NEVER be caught sleeping in the fetal position. I would wake myself up in the middle of the night, I would straighten out like a board. It bothered me, constantly. I became obsessed with not allowing myself to even bend my knees in my sleep. This carried onward into my 20s. One day, when I was about 28, I confessed this to a friend, and realized how silly it was. Now, I can sleep with my knees bent. You still won't ever see me in the fetal position, but it is a huge weight off my mind to not have to punish myself for bending my knees. (btw: I punish myself with depravity, not abuse. Just in case you are worried.)
Is there anything you can see astrologically that would correspond with this personality trait?
It's that whole "I am my own worst enemy" thing.

Well let's see how many Scorpios agree with this. I know it hit the nail on the head for me.

Self-centered, always looking for mastery of themselves and their
burning desires. Prone to self-destruction, unstoppable by
difficulties, always looking for new struggles and challenges,
Scorpios may be good friends or terrible foes.

Personality of people born under Scorpio's stars is basically
self-centered. They devote all their efforts in search of the more
complete and absolute mastery of themselves. Scorpios cannot stand
failures. When Scorpios fails to control their burning desires, they
may waste their life on drugs or alcohol addiction, destructing
themselves with unstoppable determination. Scorpios hates
superficiality, giving or receiving flattery in all its forms, and
they love truth and hidden sides of things. If they are prone to
self-destruction, external difficulties cannot stop them. On the
contrary, Scorpios sometimes need resistance to go on. Too easy things
are not for them. Scorpios are absolutely determinates: each time they
find an obstacle, they work on it until they eliminate it. They
venerate their own desires and they continually work to dominate them.
In spite of every legal, social, moral or ethic limitation they forge
their will under the fire of a stern self discipline and they rarely
indulge on themselves. Due to this harsh self-treatment, they often
turn out to celebrate themselves as gods and goddesses, using the
power they developed in the relation with others.

Scorpios may be precious allied, and they use their energy to support
the evolution of people around them, but they also can turn out to be
very hard to handle. They can be immensely altruists, but in a moment
they may turn utterly selfish with the same determination. They may be
kind and respectful with someone as they can be devilish and cruel
with someone else. Scorpios are actually very sensitive people, and
they especially feels emotionally vulnerable by friends and relatives.
That is why they carefully hide their vulnerability to others.
Scorpios are not good subjects to trick. Most times they seem to be
insensitive to attacks and offences, or even to physical injuries, and
they even may react with indifference or unpredictable kindness to
people treating them very badly. But all Scorpios are ultimately
vindictive. Something about Scorpios are the eyes. They always shows
thir deep movements. For instance, when a Scorpio is happy, its eyes
sparkle. When he is angry, they seem to shoot fire around, and when a
Scorpio feels hurt, its eyes turn dark and dead like the ones of a
shark. Fear such look: a hurt Scorpio will never be able to forget nor
forgive the offence - he will patiently await the time to strike back
at full force. He may take its revenge even after decades.

Scorpios are very industrious persons, in constant need to be busy.
Their determination drives them to go on with their work skipping any
other need, even sleeping or eating. This aspect makes them
exceptional sources in case of emergencies. The problem is that they
always work this way, forcing colleagues to keep their exhausting
rhythm. They have a talent about regeneration and intuition. Thus they
are often drawn to medical professions. There they seem to show a
supernatural strength and capacity to overcome suffering, disease and
death. The same power shows in the investigation-related jobs.
Scorpios are excellent detectives, and they show unexplainable skills
in understanding the criminals they hunt. Most Scorpios shows some
extent of psychic powers and all of them are deeply attracted into
mystery, unseen, occultism and generally every paranormal activity and
phenomenon. Occasionally the psychic powers of Scorpios bring them
disturbing visions and rarely even drive them to madness.

Most Scorpios hide inside their souls an unbelievable amount of
passions, which they always try to dominate and control. Their love
may be addictive, but also suffocating. Scorpios are very giving and
demanding partners. Jealousy, possessiveness, anger and hate may
bursts unexpected and devouring. When a Scorpio decide to hurt
someone, he is always able to find the more evil and effective way to
do it. They sense others weaknesses and vulnerabilities and may
terribly determined in hitting there. Scorpios' sense of humor is
often dark and sometimes incomprehensible.

Scorpios shows little or no trust in medicine. They simply deny
themselves the right to be ill, until they definitely crashes. When
their consistent resistance surrenders to a disease, they stop all
activities and rely on enormous amount of medicaments. Bladder and
genitals are the more vulnerable body areas of Scorpions. Abscesses,
carbuncles, piles, ruptures and ulcers are also very common. The
powerful energies that they hide inside must be released or they
finally hurt them form the inside. Sports and physical activities are
a must for Scorpios.

Ohh no dout, I'm with you on that.

Gemini = >:(

Well this post seems to be a way to shake the Scorpios out of the landscape.

I like the thread about be prepared to get stung.
I'd say if it would be deadly don't play this way.

Otherwise, if the seduction is going to be undertaken I would recommend ...be (brutally) honest, be full on sexual, and enjoy submerging contact with the dark side of human nature. Plus some of the seduction is giving the Scorpio the feeling that he is holding the reins, running the show. Herein could launch a debate about who's in charge.

If it's a healthy Scorpio (in touch with/embracing that depth), then some of the seduction is in the fact that if I did get stung...well it might be quite memorable, in a very, very good way.

that said

I'm poison for a Scorpio too. (Gemini poison, I'll walk or fly away and not look back, maybe it's the embodiment of irrationality). which has lent some seductive sucess to adventures of this sort. I definitely get along with Scorpios.

if you can't do any better than that, please don't admit that you're a scorpio rising. newbies might make a connection without bothering to look for a more likely affliction in your chart that might impel you to spout such superficial dribble .

that would be fantastic and Thank You!

I don't know how much background you'd need, so here's a little bit - Rob sent me a message off of a personals site that I'm on about a month ago. We met and really hit it off. Nothing's -happened- yet, and we've only seen each other a few times due to the fact that we're both pretty busy during the week. Our birth information is a few posts up - both of our birth times are unknown.

I guess what I want to know is if this is the right time for me to pursue something romantic with him or if I should hold off for a while.

Is that specific enough? I really don't know much about astrology, so I don't know what kinds of questions are reasonable to ask. This guy, though, is literally everything I've been looking for and I don't want to mess things up just as we're getting to know each other because of bad timing on my part.

thanks again,

-susan

Hi there,
I have just recently read about horary astrology and have a definite interest.
I am struggling through my Saturn Retrun and really wondering what it is I should be doing with my life.
I have my interests and I do have goals, but I am just wondering if I am on the right track because I feel really confused!
Would you mind terribly looking at my chart and giving me a small little perspective on anything that might jump out at you?
I'd appreciate it! :)

**I simply challenge them--they can't pass it up.**

good one. challenge a scorpio; flatter a leo; agree with a virgo; believe a pisces; pretend you're listening to a gemini (but don't, hehehe); laugh at a saggitarian's jokes; don't question an aries; work for a capricorn; be inspired by an aquarius; protect a cancer . . . i'd better stop.

well because its been done, reinvented and done all over again, unless we want to start breaking it down into scorpio in the planets and houses. Through transits or progressions- other than that its a well done potato .

Lol I was haha but then i saw a lot of diversions and hey - in the end you have to try it for yourself - no use in asking how SOMEONE ELSE seduces a Scorp...you gotta bag the sucker yourself!

hahaha lol

p.s. - i've got MY tricks lol