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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Mon, December 22, 2003 - 4:43 PMthat's a good question...
if you can match the scorpio's intensity that's always good...
tell your scorpio your secrets... we love that, we eat it up... the more open you are, the more open your scorpio will become.
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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Mon, December 22, 2003 - 4:44 PMoh yeah one more thing, they can read your mind. say things with your eyes. trust me, it will work. they understand exactly what you're thinking and that silent kiss when properly sparked can take you far away from everything to a wonderfully deep emotional place. -
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Mon, December 22, 2003 - 6:55 PM*Swoon* God, how I love scorpios. It's all so so true!
Staring into the eyes of an old scorpio I used to know, we would have entire conversations with jolts of electricity pinging back and forth between our pupils. Oh, how his brown eyes would sparkle! He could see the depths of my secret self! And I liked it!
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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Mon, December 22, 2003 - 7:39 PMOk. I am a scorpio, and a fire dragon (in chinese astrology) too. I have a deep dark place that was not penetrated by anyone... and it just kept getting darker. I was able to fool so many people, not least of all those closest to me. How am i supposed to open up and be sure these things don't happen anymore? I can't be too specific, but those stereotypical scorpio traits such as being close to the darker side, and being overly passionate, and sexually *over*driven don't help. The bad thing is, they are all true... is there a way to get these traits under control? -
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Mon, December 22, 2003 - 7:56 PMbefriend a libra and discuss balance and how to achieve it, at length? -
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Mon, December 22, 2003 - 9:28 PMby all means avoid mindless prattle. we tend to despise pettiness and always seek the deeper levels of thought, feeling and connection. jump in. be direct. but be patient. we reveal things slowly, and cherish our private lives. don't play games, that feeds our dark natures. remain somewhat of a mystery. shock value goes a long way. we like unpredictability and often require the impetus of others to step outside ourselves. more later. -
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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Mon, December 22, 2003 - 10:49 PMAs a virgo with a venus in scorpio, I've been together with (and had more workable relationships with) scorpios more than any sign.
Here's why I think these relationships work/worked...
I'm honest and innocent to an extreme degree--and very trusting. From what I understand, scorpios don't like to be mistrusted. Scorpios are extremely trustworthy and extremely honest, if they're believed in. I've not developed that weird paranoia that people have had about scorpios, ever. I think that any hesitancy or paranoia or a lack of trust will cause the scorpios to feel crossed. Scorpios...oh, god, I love them...they see the underlying nature of so many things. They offer perspective. Appreciate and honor their ability to see these things. Trust them, love them, and set a precedent for openness with them. They'll trust you back. Don't strategize at all. Just be yourself, be open, be trustworthy/trusting, and that's it. :) -
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Tue, December 23, 2003 - 3:28 AM
"Scorpios are extremely trustworthy and extremely honest, if they're believed in."
I am a scorpio, and i would like to warn you to not be too trusting of all of us... we are devious, scheming, calculating, cold, vengeful... even when trusted, no, *especially* when trusted.
and all of this while our eyes radiate our depth, warmth, satisfaction... Sometimes our thoughts and feelings are literally billions of miles away while our gaze slowly but surely melt you like wax.
I read somewhere before that there are actually two types of scorpions. one is quiet, introverted, focused on his own world. the other is quite the opposite, being very outspoken, likeable, cordial... the absolute life of the party.
beware of the first kind, but more so of the second, lest they sting you from behind...
maybe i'm a bit of a pessimist, but hey, as they say, an ounce of prevention...
p.s. the only thing a scorpio is afraid of is a piscean. when a scorpio gets caught in the piscean's whirlwind, he's gone. :)
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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Tue, December 23, 2003 - 1:32 PMOh, come on. :) We all are privy to the darker sides. We all scheme and calculate at times. Choosing to not trust someone for no other reason than the fact that their sun sign is scorpio is just plain silly. Trusting someone is a gift, and it generates trustworthiness. Distrust them, and they'll give you reason to distrust them.
Irrespective of your sun sign, if your thoughts are millions of miles away when you're present with another human being, then perhaps that says something about your connection with that person, or do you fear being present with another human being?
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Wed, February 18, 2004 - 6:47 AM"I am a Scorpio, and I would like to warn you to not be too trusting of all of us... we are devious, scheming, calculating, cold, vengeful... even when trusted, no, *especially* when trusted."
Very true statement... a lot of Scorpios I’ve come in contact are great exterior friends but have many undesirable qualities the closer I became with them. As the love ?? Scorpios are like a gray math problem, that for the most part I don’t ever want to spend the time or energy to figure out! -
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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Thu, October 13, 2005 - 2:53 AMU cant figure out a true scorpio. We spend a life time trying to figure ourselves out. but know this loyalty is a virtue, that will get you everywhere u wanna be. U cant seduce a scorpio, but show loyalty, and we will be seduced. You have to fully let go to be seduced, trust me if you can get me to that that state, seduce away. lol
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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Sat, April 30, 2005 - 2:23 PMBudmeister, where did you get this stuff from? You have to take a persons whole chart into consideration. AND it also depends on where a person is in their life; how or if they have grown on a spiritual level, emotional level and intellectual level.
I am a Scorpio and neither am I devious, scheming, calculating, cold or vengeful. That's not who I ever was. Yet, I've known other people of different signs that were all of those things.
I also do not fear any particular sign. I've never heard that one before. We are all individuals who due to our childhoods or other things that may happen in life, shape us into the people we turn out to be. By doing work on a spiritual, emotional and intellectual level, we change...we grow for the better.
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Sat, April 30, 2005 - 5:27 PMI'm a Scorpio and seduction for me depends on the mood I'm in. Sometimes it's definitely in the eyes, taking things slow.. the energy that can ignite just from a glance, or just letting that intensity grow between you, till your head is buzzing and you just can't keep your hands off one another.
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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Sat, April 30, 2005 - 5:46 PMThat's what I like so much about Scorpio women! The total power thing....loving both totally being controlled, and also loving total control of the other person.
That's from the Pluto part of Scorpio. (I have my Venus conjunct Pluto...explains why Eibhlin just described my ideal woman!)
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Fri, January 13, 2006 - 11:11 AM
Im a Scorpio and i consider myself to be "extremely trustworthy and extremely honest". It all depends how of a mature scorpio you are. Dont forget that
scorpio has also the Eagle as a simbol.
In Oneness
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Sun, May 20, 2007 - 6:31 PMcan you explain the whirlwind statement to me. I am a piscian woman dating a scorpio man and I don't like the fact that he reads me and is pretty damn good at doing it.
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Sat, January 26, 2008 - 7:31 PM"p.s. the only thing a scorpio is afraid of is a piscean. when a scorpio gets caught in the piscean's whirlwind, he's gone. :)"
True that to the fullest man. That explains a lot for the Scorpio I knew.
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Sun, July 6, 2008 - 9:32 PMIndeed he is!!!! It is a Pisces who has much power over Scorpio! But its also the same vice versa. But we love it!!! hehe!
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Mon, July 7, 2008 - 9:06 AMSounds like my mother. Every other Scorpio I've known has been great. Look at your entire chart to see what's going on. Do you have a lot in your 12th house? Any grand squares blocking you? You need to look at the whole picture. There can be three types of Scorpios and yes, Scorpios can go completely to the dark side, but if you're aware of it and it bothers you then you can look at things and start to work it out. Sounds like your North Node might be in Libra if you are wanting to be more balanced, understanding and fair.
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Tue, December 23, 2003 - 3:33 AM
"befriend a libra and discuss balance and how to achieve it, at length?"
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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Tue, December 23, 2003 - 6:34 AMI feel the way to scorpios secret treasures
is to be elaborate and give them hints
a long slow tease that never fails to demonstrate the reality of the promised energy to come...
lick them just next to where they want to be licked
give them a riddle to figure out about yourself
ask their opinion and perceptions of your shortcomings
don't be afraid to tell them theirs
And just like any sign: Look them in the center of their eye and think : I am capable of handling your intensity in fact I CRAVE it...
Good luck with the seduction..scorpio is truly one of the best erotic flavors of the whole gig...
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Sun, December 28, 2003 - 9:26 AMI'm a Libra with a few planets in Scorpio so I may be of some help... or at least willing to try. Message me and we'll see if I'm any use at all :)
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Tue, December 23, 2003 - 9:01 PMPlease, please, please stay away from Libras!
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Thu, February 19, 2004 - 1:26 PMYes....Please stay away from libras. It's only good for a time and is very hard to pull away from.
Also Libra with many...many scorpion tails. There has to be some other sign out there that can truly tame and soothe the scorpio. -
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Sun, July 6, 2008 - 9:35 PMPisces. And I would NEVER dare tame the wildly intense Scorpio. I would rather they be who they are meant to be. Why try to stiffle their awesome ways? They'd only resent you no?
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Fri, April 29, 2005 - 11:02 PMI have nothing to say on topic but off topic I do have to say Camille you have gorgeous skin and you are very beautiful. No I am not trying to hit on you and I very much adore males but it had to be said.
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Thu, February 19, 2004 - 1:19 PMBut there is also a point where scorpio and libra tip the scales...It is very hard for a libra to hold a scorpio's lack of balance for long.
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Fri, January 13, 2006 - 6:33 PMin my understanding about you folks As a cancer. Ya need to conect with us often. We can temper you. You just have to allow it. & well love being w/ you for you take us places we would not go alone. You are like a Wood stove: nice & warm on the out side.Raging fire inside. Allow some folks to adjust you flue sometimes. They will enjoy the warmth.
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Sun, January 15, 2006 - 9:57 AMHello Weed,
I've been a practicing astrologer for 10 years. I've read your
posts on this thread and I must say I'm intrigued by your introspection and apparent candor (laughs). My specialty in chart anaylisis is relationship--all aspects of it, all types.
Would you be willing to share your birth information with me? I'll need to know date of birth, location of birth, and time of birth.
I'm also a double Libra ;) (Libra rising, Libra Moon, Cancer/9th House Sun)
saeth
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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Sun, February 15, 2004 - 10:49 PMi think september has a few things figured out about us. astrology and occult subjects in general, anything mysterious, or unquantifiable are usually good subjects. It is also useful to let them know the relationship means somthing, its hard to get passionate over nothing. what you do, is not as important as how you do it. and i can't emphasize honesty and openess enough, we will probably guess if you lie, and imagine to much if we arnt shown enough.
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Wed, February 18, 2004 - 7:36 AMYou need to do two diametrically opposite things at the same times. I am a Scorpio so this is a first hand advice: be honest and mysterious - and Scorpio is yours. Honest means that you will not hurt her feelings, or even worst - ego. "Mysterious" means she (or he) will never get bored with you.
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Wed, February 18, 2004 - 4:26 PMbreathe - heavily if needed
-MaryEllen
Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter & Neptune all in Scorpio & loving every excruciating minute of it ;)
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Fri, April 29, 2005 - 7:28 PMLOL, I would guess very slowly and carefully!
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Fri, April 29, 2005 - 8:57 PM<I can't be too specific, but those stereotypical scorpio traits such as being close to the darker side, and being overly passionate, and sexually *over*driven don't help. The bad thing is, they are all true... is there a way to get these traits under control?>
Yes, there is always a way to balance within yourself. All signs have possitive and negative traits. Funny thing is, most of them are the opposite sides of the same coin. In other words, there is a possitive to all of the negatives that you already posess. It is said that we experience the darker things so that we may know light. I have a lot of scorpios in my life and I know of their devious nature. I can also see their amazing potential. Question for you (no posted reply, just for you) - do you trust yourself? Do you like yourself? The scorpios I know that have overcome this feeling of being sucked into the darker side have truely learned to love themselves and trust themselves. Just food for thought......
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Fri, April 29, 2005 - 11:05 PMI only said this because, the one and only time a woman ever seduced me, she was a scorpio.
Wonderful memories.
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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Fri, April 29, 2005 - 9:00 PMBy earning their trust by being trustworthy. You can't fake it with a scorpio...they are intuitive and know when you are full of shiat (unless they were born in the 60's with neptune conj. their sun).
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Sat, April 30, 2005 - 4:58 AMScorpios? *DROOOOOOOLS*
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Sat, April 30, 2005 - 9:04 AMAs a piscean... I know the depths of a scorpio..... I also know that they wear a facde of secure sensuality and forcefulness...but you can't get fooled by their cover and have to dig to their inner soul to win them -
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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Sun, May 1, 2005 - 9:58 AM"I am a scorpio, and i would like to warn you to not be too trusting of all of us... we are devious, scheming, calculating, cold, vengeful... even when trusted, no, *especially* when trusted."
I'm a little late on this line of conversation, but I'd like respond to this comment. As a Scorpio, I am utterly beguiled by someone who is trusting and trustworthy, and I would be extremely loathe to endanger that trust.
Scorpios are often misunderstood as evil. I think a lot of our problems are due to our deep feelings, our ability to cope with them, and the ability of others to relate to or understand them.
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Re: Seduce a Scorpio...?
Sun, May 1, 2005 - 10:18 AMA Scorpions tail points to it head, it also bites them behind the neck. The one I knew talked about nothing and tried to make herself sound important.
Hated being called a game player, when in fact she was even playing games with herself. Talked about hurting when it was her, but not about you.
Warm sounding, as cold as it gets. it worked on me for 3 years, what happened? May 1st I woke up clear of pain or fear. Love gone, friendship no longer needed. What did the moon and stars do to this Capracorn, It's wonderful. Would I love a Scorpio again? Yes now I am awear of the games they play, and how they always lose.
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Sun, May 1, 2005 - 10:32 AMI've been close to Scorpio people for most of my adult life. There is something of the iceberg about them. No, I don't mean cold...
You know how they say that the part of the iceberg you see is only a small part, most of it is actually beneath the surface? I've never met a Scorpio that that didn't apply to.
And there is a very huge element of trust involved with Scorpio people. The more they trust you, the more of the hidden part they will let you see. But they always must have a private part of themselves that no one ever knows.....a part of them that belongs only to them, now and forever.
I've known Scorpio's who have reached unimaginable heights of greatness. And I've known others who have explored the depths of depravity. (And on occasion, found these in the same person.) Scorpio is capable of the most extreme, intense, total focus of all the signs.
And as Tanichka said, their feelings run deep. For a non-Scorpio to try to imagine the depth of a Scorpio's feelings is on par with trying to contemplate the question, "Is there an end to the universe...and if so, what's on the other side?" The mind boggles.
I'd never want a Scorpio as a enemy. But if a Scorpio is on your side, there is nothing you can't accomplish together....because once a Scorpio sets his/her mind to do something, trying to tell the Scorpio to stop is like saying to a bullet, after the gun has been fired, "Hey, I aimed you wrong...go back to the gun and let me shoot again." It ain't gonna stop until it gets where it's going!
This intense focus is true if they choose to do something positive....it is also true if they choose to do something nasty. If a Scorpio feels the need to strike, or seek revenge....they can be the most ruthless person in the world. But they don't choose that path idly.
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