You didn't give his mercury communication is with mercury . If the issues were more important but you say the small things so look at the

mercury placements and degree. The sun and moons are just fine as to compatibility..

He might appreciate some solitude and quietness in the home, at times .

His mercury is either Aries , Taurus, Gemini . There is where to look.

cappi and pisces moon are 90' square by sign, but what about the aspects. Can you post a synastry bi wheel from astro.com
Midheaven, Juno, Vertex, Nodes, Part of fortune. so failing no chart appearing you will have to do some research yourself and this is where I come in, for no charge whatsoever (just because I love astrology and this is MY vocation) I will walk you through astrological techniques you are asking about

In a man’s chart we look at venus and moon, then planets in 7th house the signs/aspects, in the absent of planets then the ruler of 7th house ‘traits’, where it’s placed and aspected.
In a woman’s chart we look at sun and mars, then planets in 7th house the signs/aspects, in the absent of planets then the ruler of 7th house ‘traits’, where it’s placed and aspected.

How to approach Synastry
Go to astro.com and get FREE charts and synastry bi wheel, found in extended chart selection. Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 45% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. Composite should be 85% orbs. Please also include, vertex, juno and POF (part of fortune).

when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *ASPECT GRID* THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT AS IT SEEMS TO SHOW MORE ASPECTS THAN IS VISIBLE ON THE BI WHEEL…

problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Abode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard.

Paste (Ctrl V) into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press ‘direct link’ and past link into thread.... all done :)

Failing sight of your chart, you will have to do some research for yourself. But if you do post a link I will do my best to analyse and interpret for you.

How to Analyse 7th Marriage House
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synastry, house overlays
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Learn about synastry
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Vertex in signs and houses when relationships seem fated
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North Node in signs and houses
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Juno in signs and houses
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learn composite charts, that describe THE relationship
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I do hope this wets your appetite for astrology. Any further astrological questions please don't hesitate to ask, this is what I'm here for...