what do "lilth forms" mean? and where would i find that on my chart?
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all the Liliths that I currently use are available on www.astro.com (but I'm becoming aware that there are more & some of the forms are still rather confusing, so I hope you are not expecting an 'easy answer' on this!).....

here's what I got, so far (comments, suggestions, intuitive guesses & links much appreciated!):

Black Moon Lilith (the one most people talk about) ~ sign of a crescent moon over a cross ~ the empty focus of the moon's elliptical orbit around the earth -------> called just "Lilith" in the box of additional objects on the extended chart selection, highlight the word

Asteroid Lilith ~ will say "Lilit" on your astro.com chart ---------> asteroid #1181, you must enter that number in the additional asteroids or hypothetical planets box on the extended chart selection page

Dark Moon Lilith ~ will say "Walde" on chart ~ the hypothetical second moon of earth ~ also called Waldemath Dark Moon------> enter h58 in the additional asteroids, etc. box


here's what I'm still working on:

Fixed star Agol ~ also called Lilith ---------> check the box for "add some fixed stars" on the extended chart selection page & I believe that it will add Agol, along with others to the outer rim of the chart

interpolated Lunar Apogee (Lilith) ~ also called Natural Apogee ~ written as "intp" on chart (correct me if I'm wrong) ~ the farthest point from the earth in the moon's orbit ------> listed on the hypothetical planets, etc. page, there is a link to it on the extended chart selection page, h21

h13, Osculating Lunar Apogee ("True" Lilith / Black Moon) ~ I think this is an alternate calculation for Black Moon Lilith (which is not on object, but a mathematical point, so like the Moon's nodes, can be calculated a few ways) & if I am correct on this, should always fall just within a few degrees of the crescent moon over a cross symbol on the chart, listed as "osc"


I hope this helps ~ it sums up just about two years of my un-tangling of all these forms, but in no way am I implying that this is my "final answer"!

love all-ways,
mem

*"His mercury exactly on my uranus.."*

So what are you saying? That he has a thermometer up your butt?

Sorry, I'm just joking!
I just can't help coming up with corny puns...

mercury conjunct uranus.
intrigued by your views, in fact you may be changing his.
the mind is an attraction, you can turn it on or off.

natalie,

it doesn't have to be someone with sun, moon or asc in any of those signs, just someone who has those traits.

With Mars in Sag, u're probably attracted to athletic men that also have a brainy side, an interest in philosophy or other abstract sciences and possibly someone who shares ur views and beliefs.

That's just one possible harmonious aspect. There are many more to consider. Like...someone's Sun in ur 1st house or conjunct ur Ascendant. Even better would be someone with Sun in ur 7th house, or conjunct ur Descendant.

there is a very complex synastry analysis on www.cafeastrology.com

i have read thatit is when moon & sun are in aspect to one another. i don't recall reading it had to be a conjunction; not 100% if i am remembering correctly. who knows... i think there may be some definite postive & negative aspects, but there are so many factors...

I have several empty houses because i have a stellium.

With Mars in Aquarius, unless it makes any major aspects to other planets, u're also likely to be interested in men who are brainy, cultivated, sociable, in one word, "polished".
Aquarius is the most human of signs, so that should say a lot in itself.

It would really help if u posted ur charts.(urs and ur boyfriend's, I mean)

Mars in Aquarius is likely to be turned on/motivated by someone else who is involved in causes larger than themselves ~ someone who has ideals & plans to improve the world & access to the cutting edge technology to achieve their vision (kinda 007 with all his gizmos)

love all-ways,
mem

Yeah, aren't Aries and Libra opposite eachother in the chart? I mean, 1st and 7th houses?

I have 7th Cap, which confers I'm attracted to those who've "ascended" or have some sort of social standing/maturity to them. Mars is in Aries, sexually I'm all about that Ram nature. Venus is in Aries too, but I'm not so into loving Aries' love nature tho I am more of a Libra lover and my moon is in Libra.

Which is just confusing....so I guess one can't really tell attraction to a T by planet placement.