I have this placement.

While I don't think it's an exuberant and blindly passionate type of thing, I do think it reflects a measured and somewhat assessive approach toward love...kind of as if one is constanting processing to "be sure" about how and when to open and bloom and with who. Then it becomes a loyal,passionate and "responsible" player in the arena, and only with particular folks.


~V~

Wow, Bodhi, you said so many things that hit home! I'm a Mars in Capricorn myself, and the part about maturity not being age-related rings so true to my ears - I've *always* had that exact same opinion. I've always been drawn to mature partners as well.

As far as game-playing goes; I have to agree with this too. Games just gets me on edge. My walls come up and I pull away the second I get a hint that this might be the scenario. I just want something real, something enduring - no big pretty words, just pure and true emotions.

I don't really know wether or not I believe all the stereotypes of Venus in Capricorn, as I've never really known one. But I've got my eyes at this man with Venus in Capricorn, so just out of curiosity, I asked those who knew better :)

Bodhi,

I have cap venus & I agree with what your saying. I think there is too many overgeneralizations out there. To say because I have a cap venus that I am undemonstrative and reserved is ignoring the rest of the planetary influences. Particulary the moon (emotions) & mars (sex-drive) =)

" i dont like it when im pushed.. im not spontaneous here.. "

In love and romantic situations, you mean?

The only negative aspect is her Mars which squares it in Aries.

I don't believe it is either -- especially when she tells me she intends to live to 120!

In Sagittarius.

well...either of those - whichever it might be - sounds oki doki to me, better than in capricorn at any rate.

kinda lusty and stuff.

~V~

Olivia, why don't you try some things that expand your understanding of this defintion of yourself and push the parameters of your spacebubble while still feeling secure in your current way of being and frame of mind?

~V~

hey louis thats kool that u were born in 89 :]
lol libra moon is okay, but ur lucky 2 hav a scorpio moon , u must b a sex god lol jk :p
why do u think ur screwed up? having so much capricorn isnt neccissarily a bad thing...it does have its benefits
perserverance, tough skin, clear head lol
its not all that bad
its what you make of it that counts
i was like u b4, i focused on the crappy parts of my chart (myself)
but then i realized that this MAY be the way i naturally act/am but that dosent mean i cant change, learn, and grow
im still learning 2 stop hating myself...and i have 2 say that if it werent for the capricorn part of me i dont think i would be where i am now..id still be stuck in that stupid shit hole....my capricorn side is always telling me 2 never give up..be patient with yourself...but never give up,
i am so thankful for that
about the relationship thing..wow..
i didnt think there was anyone out there like me
its hard 2 find people like that
haha ya we r the masters of time
...i hope i dont have 2 wait forever tho

all i can tell you is to look for the positive, and grab hold of it, and just remind yourself about the positive things about yourself...and if you can find nothing you like about yourself then change, but never forget who you are,, and that dosent mean that you are who you hated..but dont change so much that you lose yourself completely...if that makes sense

thats the thing about capricorn, were pessimistic...but thats just another mountain we have 2 climb :]