You didn't give the actual city you were born in Michigan, so I used Detroit. That gives you a Scorpio rising.

"Please tell me what's up with me and gemini's and tauruse."

The latter part of Taurus, and much of Gemini are in your 7th house of relationships. That tends to bring alot of those types of people into your life, and many times the marriage partners are found there. BTW, your Moon and Jupiter are in Gemini in your birth chart.

" I wish someone could tell me why this time of year is so anxiety producing for me."

The Sun is the only one that is pretty much in the same place yearly. Four days ago the Sun was exactly square to your Saturn. Some tension can come between obligations versus what you would rather be doing. It can also effect your relationships with superiors. Depression and lack of confidence is sometimes associated with this transit. The effects only lasts for a few days though.

Tomorrow (same time every year) the Sun will be in opposition to your natal Venus in Scorpio. You should be feeling it now and for the next 2 or 3 days. It brings you to assess the balance of give and take in your relationships and with your loved ones. Financial stress can come about by overspending or overindulgence.

If you plan and prepare ahead of time every year for this it should greatly ease the tension.