LK,

It's extremely difficult to read with all of the astroids included. Can you post another synastry with only the astroids you think are important here? Maybe not the vertex either unless there is some romantic interest?

At a glance I'd say the 2 of you can really give each other a rise in one way or another. But most of the oppositions seem to involve astroids, and some of them may not be important. I generally just include part of fortune, chiron and ceres with synastry charts of just friends.

Are your pluto and venus' aspecting each other? Hard to tell with astrodiest sometimes...

His neptune conjunct your PT could mean something I think, if you allow or want it. That conjunction could be pos or neg- just depends on how you look at it or what it means to you personally etc... Definitely a connection there. Maybe watch out for that if it's not obvious... Just a guess.

I would guess this would be a difficult and insightful relationship. It's as complex as a grand sextile but not as tied in or easy. And I don't think GT's are easy by any means. I am wondering if it is easy for the both of you to focus on the negative aspects of each other, and then perhaps the grand trine and it's secondary trines might pull you back as friends.

I'd be curious how you feel it works.

because of all the oppositions and trines I am wondering if it might work simular to a sort of grand sextile synastry- where HOW everything fits together takes quite a bit of time to figure out. BECAUSE the 2 of you are changing each other so fast that it takes longer to really know eachother.

But perhaps once most of the astriods aren't there it is simpler. Hard to see.

one aspect of our relationship could be seen by some as 'work' though in an 'unconventional' sense, by others as total nonsense.

lk

coors

it could be said that we became aware of our relationship 2 years ago and it lay dormant until this summer when we both reached points where it activated ...

i said to bluehorse this is a multi-faceted and unconventional relationship... one being the unconventional work i mentioned to laura that has to do with healing service... others being friends, muses, teachers, students, portals, beloveds...

yes ours is a relationship that involves transformation, teaching, and learning among many things

you said: "...I have come to believe that a soulmate is someone who affects you in a way that pushes you to the next level of your own evolution.....a catalyst lets say. But that doesn't mean its comfy and it doesn't mean you are supposed to stay with them..."

the first sentence matches up with those in my life who i could label as 'soulmate' as we have done exactly that with one another. regarding comfiness or longevity: comfiness is a matter of perspective and for me longevity is a non issue as from my perspective all my relationships with others never begin or end, they always are... they just travel the paths they do directed as they are... they can change form many times

lk